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This is going to sound crazy... I was bullied a lot in elementary then a little less in middle. When I went to high school, the kids I grew up with made up only 1/3 of my class. And I was lucky enough to be friends with 1 or 2 cool kids from activities outside of school. I walked into the door and treated it as a new world. Head high, big smile, high to everyone etc. Worked great. Here’s what I recommend: The summer before, get into some kind of activity with your peer group. Get some practice i…
/r/askTRP11/06/18 02:38 PM
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So this will show my age... David D. All his stuff has value, but I really liked the interviews. Showed different perspectives, how men talk to each other, and kinda entertaining. My main take aways were outcome independence, playful interactions (treat her like your little sister) and “it doesn’t matter what you say as much as how you say it” ie confidence.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 12:37 PM
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I could make a lot of money as a contract killer. Or selling my body for gay sex. Or I could sell my first born on the black market...
/r/askTRP07/06/18 11:41 PM
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Get her a gift. You’ve been together for years, you live together. Get the damn girl a gift. Earrings sound good. The card means more to her anyway. And yes, give her a card with a few kind words.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 02:40 PM
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You’re clearly inexperienced, so don’t feel judged by what I’m about to say. You’re exactly where you’re supposed to be. It is clear to me from your questions that you think there is a ‘right’ and ‘wrong’ way to do it. There isn’t. It’s all shades of grey. There’s better and worse. I get the sense that you’re an over analyzer. You think if you just do actions A, B and C correctly the door will magically open.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 09:02 PM
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I’m very experienced in bed. A good lay. I can’t get it up without her mouth doing some work. Stick it in her face and tell her to get to work
/r/askTRP01/06/18 04:09 PM
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You’re not creating friction. You need to be polarizing. Women want to feel emotions. That’s one of the reasons negging works. You need to read pickup, not trp. Taking to two girls? Make fun of one of them in front of the other. “Can you believe this girl?” With a big smirk. They ask what you do? Ur an underwear model, a male stripper, you’re a private eye that tries to lure married women into torrid affairs. Christ, I’ve told women I love their shoes, they say something, I say “I have the same …
/r/askTRP29/05/18 10:34 PM
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Maybe just tell her the truth. You might lose the opportunity because of it, but your anxiety will likely cause you to fuck up anyway... Unlike what you might hear here, some women can handle the truth. She might loose some attraction, but she will likely go through with it anyway.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 11:06 PM
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Maybe, just maybe you should take her words at face value. She feels guilt that she was a dick by choosing someone else over you, she thinks she hurt you and she cares enough about you to say it. Why’d she send the message? Yes, part of it is selfish. She wants to feel less guilt. But also, she treated you like trash, and is trying to express to you that she doesn’t think of you as trash. Text back “Thanks, I appreciate it.” Then back to radio silence. She tries to continue convo either ignore (…
/r/askTRP24/05/18 07:28 PM
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Please elaborate...
/r/askTRP23/05/18 11:20 PM
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Much of their skill set is nearly obsolete. Just like men being good at fighting, hunting, killing, etc are nearly obsolete skills. Gathering. Women have an amazing ability to remember which, where, when etc when it comes to resource procurement. Today: they shop. Because of the credit system and advertising, they over do it cuz the need is inflated and the cost is hidden. Related to this is their ability to regulate their environment to provide for their family. Women feel a strong urge to do t…
/r/askTRP23/05/18 03:14 PM
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Girl I’m with smelled and tasted awesome... till she went on the pill. Either that shit fucked to her homeostasis, or my constant supply of cum has. Just not the same anymore...
/r/askTRP21/05/18 09:58 PM
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It’s a possibility. Just make sure you’re in a relationship by then. 3 month minimum.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 09:15 PM
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You clearly care for her. Let her go. She’s more ready now than she will ever be. She will probably remember you with fondness, unless you lead her on. Let her go.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 03:20 PM
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Legally, the victim doesn’t get to decide. The prosecutor is charged with filing suit on behalf of the citizenry when a crime is committed. He can do so without the knowledge, consent or help of the victim. It is common for the prosecutor to take the victims desires into account. Also, in a case like this, he doesn’t have a case without witness testimony. If I were you, I’d call the cops. When they ask her what happened, maybe she’ll be smart and tell them. These guys who did this clearly gave l…
/r/askTRP18/05/18 02:29 PM
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I don’t understand why op ever admitted anything. Seriously, it’s a simple convo. “No, it didn’t happen. She’s either a liar or a rapist, take your pick”
/r/askTRP17/05/18 01:24 PM
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You need to consider the idea that she is waiting with you to build a relationship but fucking a fwb to get hers. I only say this so that if you ever find out that that’s the case it doesn’t blind side you. As for the purse, yeah, that’s a tough one. Hold it for a minute, then say “here, you forgot this.” Or “this purse doesn’t go with my outfit” or “next time make sure there’s cash in it”
/r/askTRP17/05/18 12:58 PM
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I’m 6’4”. I feel similarly around taller people. That’s life.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 12:07 PM
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You’re walking next to each other on the way from sushi to ice cream. You’re holding hands cuz you’ve been escalating kino. You stop suddenly. Look at her in the eye. Put the tips of your fingers on her jaw bone, lean in, etc. All slowly. You’re chatting at the door of her car/apartment at the end of the night. You pause. Seriously, just stop talking and shut up for a second. Look her in the eye. Etc. As above. When you’re done with a short, intense kiss, you slowly pull away, deep breath, exhal…
/r/askTRP17/05/18 02:01 AM
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Also, find a way to avoid the drive. When I get in my car I wanna go home too. Meet them within walking distance from your house. Or, if I’m sprawling suburban distopia, tell them to hop in your ride to the next place ( bar, park, ice cream, your place...). Drive around till oops, that’s my house, or park.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 11:40 PM
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Just stop pushing for first date close... build some chemistry, then one good kiss. Don’t drag out the goodbye. Happily, firmly end the date. Give them something to look forward to. Several women have told me that’s when they decided to have sex. When I left. Shrug
/r/askTRP16/05/18 11:37 PM
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Sounds like you’ll have regrets either way.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 09:14 PM
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Ok, didn’t read past “abortions kill relationships and I really like this girl”. You’re an idiot. You know what else kills relationships? Having kids you can’t support. Idiot.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 08:26 PM
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This. Just. This. I was trying hard to put just this into words. She realized just how replaceable you were in those 8 months. She asked you out to either: See if she still feels the way she did. She didn’t. Proactively try to friend zone you. Or, most likely, just wanted to see if you’d blossomed (read: fucked a bunch over strangers), like she has. Which, you didn’t. Finally, you sound like a narcissist. You should get that looked at.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 12:49 AM
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I don’t get this at all. Who among us hasn’t gone out in the 48 hours after a breakup to get laid? Just because she was successful where most men fail...
/r/askTRP15/05/18 07:30 PM
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“That’s not right cuz I’ve never done that to you.” Does not work with women. Ever. One of my biggest pit falls. Solipsism
/r/askTRP14/05/18 06:49 PM
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Stop being lazy.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 12:32 PM
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Or both...
/r/askTRP09/05/18 05:00 PM
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In your band? Don’t shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 12:13 AM
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You feel deserving of your position by preforming to the best of your abilities. They know that you don’t know anything when you start. They have confidence in your ability to learn and adapt. Apparently more confidence than you do.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 09:05 PM
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I like this sentiment/approach. But clearly is precludes cohabitation, marriage and kids. Awesome.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 02:44 PM
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Do you talk to everyone? Start convos with the cashier? The bouncer? Bartender? Little old lady on the bus? Ask people if you can pet their dog, then chat them up? Have actual conversations with friends and family, not just talk about the same thing every time? If you can’t/don’t do that stuff, why would you be capable of chatting up some HB10?
/r/askTRP03/05/18 03:36 PM
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I fucking hate you assholes who say “I don’t have to share as an adult, so why should my kid”. Newsflash, you do have to share. You share all the fucking time. You share a house with your woman, a bed, bathroom, meals, your paycheck, your time. You share the road with all the other assholes. You pay your fucking taxes. Guess what that is... People in our society are selfish enough. Your toddler considers his friends at school as nearly family. He should fucking share his god damn toys, if only b…
/r/askTRP03/05/18 01:38 AM
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I’m tall and good looking. Not Chad, just good looking. I get IOIs regularly from 7s etc. My go to move is to half way ignore them. If I’m opening a set, talk to the other girls more. If it’s a friend of a friend, talk to my friend and not her. I want her seeing me have a good time. I want her to wonder why I’m not tripping all over myself to talk to her. Then, after about an hour, I’ll give her some push pull. Then close. They don’t think I’m a pussy for several reasons. One, I don’t look like …
/r/askTRP03/05/18 01:18 AM
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Do you have any depth as a person? Read any good books lately? Try new things? New thoughts? Question your beliefs? Do you have a mission? Purpose? Quality people you spend time with? Do you spend your time doing things a woman would want to join you in? Or do you just gtl?
/r/askTRP26/04/18 09:52 PM
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Don’t get her pregnant.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 12:28 PM
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Get your hair cut more often. Smell better. Hold eye contact a little longer. Head up, shoulders back. Nicer clothes and shoes. Get more sleep. Smile.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 04:51 PM
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Caught a plate who was saying exactly that hitting up some guy for dick. Talked to her about it, she said she felt like she was being used by me and that she hoped it would make her feel like things were more fair. Everything is temporary, esp “I don’t fuck other guys cuz I don’t want to”
/r/askTRP16/04/18 04:49 PM
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“I blacked out too. Don’t remember a thing. Let’s meet up and see if we can jog eachothers memories.”
/r/askTRP16/04/18 02:35 PM
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Stop making out in public. You’re building sexual tension, then releasing it with a kiss. Push pull. Also, always leave her wanting more. You break the kiss first, then grab her hand and go somewhere else. Sometimes less is more.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 08:24 PM
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Does this place have unisex bathrooms? Is your roommate hot? What’s your mom look like? Why are women so bad at estimating size and distance? Cuz they’ve been told this is 10” there whole lives! (Hands are 4” apart) Did you already tell your boss you’re gonna be late tomorrow, or do you need to pull your phone out now? Do you think that girls into us? Should we take her home now, or is it too early in our relationship? Would you fuck Justin beiber? Timberlake? Oh, you like bad boys, well... Most…
/r/askTRP02/04/18 05:39 PM
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Everyone is saying it was business, she did her part etc. Sure, that’s true in the end. What I hear OP saying is that he’s surprised she was so into it and now isn’t. Both OP and other posters are missing the fantasy. This single mom got off on giving it up to some hot guy for a phone. It’s bordering on whoring and a great taboo to get off on. So in response to OP: she loved getting used by you, it wasn’t just an act. But to continue seeing you would ruin the fantasy. To other posters seeing thi…
/r/askTRP25/03/18 09:04 PM
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11 guys her junior year of hs
/r/TheRedPill16/03/18 03:07 PM
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They don’t want to be seen as whores by people who will judge them. You show them that you’re a player who has seen the slut come out in every woman he’s ever met, she will gladly show you her dark side. Then you get to fuck her in the ass. Biggest mistake I made with my ex was reading her junior hs yearbook, where several people mentioned in notes to her that she had 11 guys that year. I found this very unsettling and couldn’t hide it. She knew I was judging her. She said “I thought you could h…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 08:33 PM
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He’s saying he’s giving too much comfort, too much validation and inflates the girls smv till she thinks she’s too good for him and ghosts.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 02:51 AM
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She sees you as a safe place to explore her sexuality. Aka she’s using you. Keep doing what you’re doing, but don’t fall for her. If she wanted that or saw that in you, she’d have signaled it already.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 05:25 PM
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You need a lawyer. Like, yesterday. Again, you NEED a lawyer. Seriously, get a god damned lawyer. Get a cheap one. Today. Whether you want to be the kids dad or not, get a lawyer. Can you guess how this paragraph is gonna end? Spoiler alert: Get a lawyer.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 08:33 PM
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Yeah, the posts saying I’m wrong are by guys who don’t have kids. His kid is 10 Year’s old. That’s 10 Year’s of love and dedication. Ignorance is bliss, cuz if it’s not yours the only thing that’s going to change is how you feel. The kid still sees you as his dad and expects your love. If you wanted to pull away, should have gotten the test 10 Year’s ago. Now the truth will only hurt you and the kid. You think she gives a fuck? And as for alimony and child support, once again these idiots don’t …
/r/TheRedPill24/02/18 02:01 AM
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Don’t do the test. Just... don’t.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 04:57 PM
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Nobody here is telling you to treat her as an equal.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 04:55 PM
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“It means she trusts you enough to let down her socially conditioning shield” Trust is part of it, but in this sentence I’d replace trust with “is attracted to”. For many women, the level of trust necessary to have sex vs be dominated by is the same. For a lot of women, sex and being dominated are the same thing. But to truly let go, they need to feel that primal urge to give themselves to an alpha. Recently I started being less dominant in bed. Was worried about her cumming less, which resulted…
/r/askTRP19/02/18 12:44 PM
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Her opinion was the same. We ended up fast forwarding through half of it looking for the sex scenes.
/r/askTRP17/02/18 12:23 PM
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My girl and I do bondage regularly. Some pretty kinky shit. Saw 50 Shades 2 with her. It was TERRIBLE. Bad plot, bad chemistry, bad bdsm content. It’s just a bad movie. And the dynamic is actually pretty blue pill. Not an example you want her to see or for you to emulate. Seriously, don’t watch that movie with your girl. It is not a turn on.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 05:17 PM
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You work nights, I sleep nights. It’s pretty simple.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 04:13 PM
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You know it’s a red light. It’s so obvious that I wonder if you’re just trolling. One thing to keep in mind: you now have the potential for large amounts of preselection. Get in good with these girls, then take them out. You walk into a bar with a normal, attractive woman who you’re not fucking, and pulling women gets a LOT easier. Seriously, game these girls good. A little tease or flirt here or there. Show them you’re fun to be around. Then start going out as friends. Also don’t forget the pot…
/r/askTRP06/02/18 05:39 PM
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What about women on the pill? Doesn’t allow for ovulation... She says it skips periods so she has one every three months, but just got her period at the wrong point in the pill cycle. Before she was on the pill, I could track her cycle in my head. The schedule, and her responses to it, were so consistent. Now? Not so much. Plus, she’s not the water faucet she used to be down there. And though she says she’s still turned on by the kinky stuff, her reaction to spanking is less sexy, more whiny. So…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/18 09:40 AM
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You put into words something that’s been forming in my thoughts since entering my latest ltr. She’s consciously of lower smv, which makes everything easier. None the less, I keep waiting for the other shoe to drop. For her to be less infatuated and start with “well if I don’t feel it as strong, it must not be real”. Can you enlighten us on how you give her a heads up that this will happen no matter what etc? Might make a good post, though I bet a bunch of guys will shit all over the idea...
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 06:36 PM
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Erm... dead dick = default no fap Ie how did you jack it if it didn’t work? Not trying to troll you, I’m sincerely wondering.
/r/askTRP23/01/18 04:43 PM
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Dancing? Attracting women? It’s not relevant. A physical confrontation between a man and woman in a bar or club will 9/10 end with man kicked out. The bouncer doesn’t give a shit who started it. Honestly, you sound incredibly arrogant and frankly, dense. I type all that shit, and that’s what you got from it? Just... wow.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 03:12 PM
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You are over analyzing all of this. And your post reeks of fear of appearing aggressive. Let me tell you a little secret. Male sexuality is aggressive. Today I asked my girl what it felt like to be horny. She didn’t understand the question, so I thought about how i would answer, and told her that when she turns me on my hands feel the need to grab her, hold her, dug into her. I feel, in my hips, the need to thrust into her. Male sexuality is aggressive. And the female is receptive. Her response:…
/r/askTRP22/01/18 04:57 AM
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Learn the laws first. Here in PA, if you’re married or on the birth cert it’s your kid. No going back. Seriously, don’t sign anything till that test comes back. So if you are stuck paying, no matter what, why learn it’s not yours? Sounds like a quick way to extra anger and depression. That being said, get it tested while it’s still in there, get a divorce QUICK. Lawyers are assholes, but get one sooner rather than later. For those of you advocating changing the law, you’re forgetting the first i…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 05:06 PM
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I agree with everything you're saying. How does a responsible adult citizen with children respond to these threats? Please PM me.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 02:12 AM
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This is the best advice I've see on here is long time. Theoretically sound and very actionable. Please make it it's own post. Even if you just copy and past. Guys need to hear this.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 02:37 PM
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It has to do with the concept of "habit". Humans (all animals really) are creatures of habit. Does she have a habit of going out, getting drunk, and taking guys home? Ok, so that's literally a pathway in her brain. She's trained herself to be open to that, to do that and to enjoy it. How many "girls nights out" while in a LTR with you will it be before her brain slips into that pattern? Remember, sex is a drug. And most people these days are addicts. Do you want a girl who's used to getting her …
/r/askTRP11/01/18 11:48 PM
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Errr... drugs or alcohol. Sounds douchy, but most people can't have a fun conversation in public without some social lubricant. Same goes for girl on girl action. Shy doesn't seem to fit the scenario.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 02:30 AM
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My guess: you didn't assume the close. You're right about it should have started on the couch. Tell them where to sit. You in the middle. Then just start kissing the more interested one. Seriously, it sounds like you were chicken. Remember, there's nothing to lose. Not to mention, they were already at your place to party. Also, when they said they were bi, never been together, whatever you should have said "show me" or "let's fix that, show her what a good girl you are" or whatever.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 08:08 PM
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See u/chazthundergut comment. The last paragraph illustrates why you are a moron.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 07:17 PM
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Because AF is not a singular state. There is no one AF. Chad does not exist. Instead AF is a state of being which is both relative to the parties involved and varies over time. It is a state of mind; expressed in the behavior of a man and experienced by a woman. In addition, as a relationship evolves over time, AF can (and likely will) shift to BB. You qualifying it with "if all factors stay the same" is not even close to realistic. To put it in perspective, rich guys get divorce raped all the t…
/r/askTRP06/01/18 10:07 PM
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Textbook play by her. Soft next. She initiates a meetup, slow play your responses. When you do meet, be distant. Occasionally just stop paying attention and let your mind wander away. No kino, no deep convos. Keep it light and act like maybe you've got somewhere better to be. When it's time to get physical, you decide, then you commit fully. Grab her chin, the back of her head, kiss her, push her back until she's against the wall/ laying back further /whatever. Physically move her. Grope her, th…
/r/askTRP26/12/17 09:25 PM
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I agree it's been said before, however, this post is so succinct, stating truths and giving good advise to deal with these realities, I think it belongs on the sidebar. The glass being broken is a key tenant of trp.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 04:56 PM
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Go buy a Porche. Drive it home. Revel in the feeling of owning the perfect driving machine. Drive it like your pants are on fire. Remember that high. Then drive it everyday. Rain, shine, traffic... You think for a second your perception of that cars value in your life will be static? That you won't eventually lose those amazing feelz? It's human nature, not just AWALT. The problem isn't that she won't hold the same perceived value. Its an impossible expectation. The problem is that when it inevi…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 03:32 PM
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Dude it's college. Sooo many opportunities to put yourself out there with no consequences. And that's exactly what you need to do. Talk to everyone! Be active in your class discussions, argue your points against other students and the teacher. Be a little too loud before class sometimes and quiet other times. Leave half way through lecture. See just how much you can influence the atmosphere, and just how little people care. Then do the same at your dorm. Learn everyone's name. Give them nickname…
/r/askTRP29/11/17 05:48 PM
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I'm not sure what good advise would look like here, but I know bad advise when I see it. Have you ever knocked a girl up? Raised a child in separate houses? First, this 'hold her at arms length' stuff won't help you much in court, in your relationship with your kids, and definitely not with her. All three matter, all the time. You never lived with her? How are you going to argue in court that you being in your child's life is in their best interest if you never have been? "I'm a great dad" doesn…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 03:39 PM
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This. So this. Thank you! Yeah, I think because the agreement we have and the setup we have is a bit of an outlier that it would be an interesting data point for others to observe. AWALT even when they don't have to. But you hit the nail on the head. You can be the best thing that's ever happened to her. Doesn't matter. The cup is already broken.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 03:01 PM
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Everyone with half a brain knows how I found out. Confront her? Why? So she can do a better job covering her tracks? So she can see me caring, being vulnerable, or mate guarding? No thanks. She planned and paid for an vacation next weekend for the two of us at an adults only resort with a topless pool. I'm just going to ride this one out lol. And by ride, I mean her ass. Bought all sorts of kinky stuff for us, and I'm going to push hard for threesomes or couples swaps. Basically go full hedonism…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 02:57 PM
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"I'm an underwear model for Calvin Klein." Then complain about how the photographer/ other models are constantly hitting on you; the stress; the need to work out ALL the time...
/r/askTRP13/11/17 01:18 AM
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Agreed. I wish this sub had more examples in it. I get the theory hands down. I want to hear examples! What would be great is more posts of tinder conversations or text convos from right after the numbers close.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 05:33 PM
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"Only once? You'll have to suck my cock at least 5 times before you get to decide if you like it." Or "Only ever been with chicks who swallow, so I'm not sure I understand ..." Or just "I can fix that for you." She's testing your sexual frame. She's saying she's kinky, but says also no... she's checking to see which one you struggle with more/ which one fits your frame better. PS. Your frame sucks. You shouldn't care what she did. You want to convey that you expect her to be kinkier than that. T…
/r/askTRP09/11/17 03:09 PM
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I read this differently than most of you guys. She's playing bitch... a bitchy girl who fights back. She's asking him to dominate her... but wants his permission to try and stop him with more force than usual. I've seen this before in women with a history of abandonment or forced sexual encounters. Some women are just angry at the men in their lives. The drinking can really bring it out. See my comments in daddy issues thread.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 01:51 AM
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I think there's a deeper question behind your question. In my judgment, you're not asking if you should hide the books, you're asking if you should hide that you read up and studied this stuff, and/or if you should hide being a player. The answer: No, not really. Don't beat them over the head with it, but be confident in the fact that you did the work and now have the skills. A doctor isn't ashamed of having gone to medschool. So you're a player... it's called preselection. One of my plates noti…
/r/askTRP06/11/17 05:17 PM
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Fuck her hard and dirty. The cup is already broken.
/r/askTRP29/10/17 03:57 PM
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Go to the party, lightly hit on other girls. Light dread. When I'm with my plates I constantly joke about bringing other girls home with us. Often girls we just met, didn't even meet, or even her friends. "Do you think Jess will be surprised when she finds out how much you like it in the ass." Stuff like that. Fuck her that night, during the party if you can. After the party is predictable. During is exciting. Then be busy for at least 5 days. Either text for logistics or sexy during this time. …
/r/askTRP27/10/17 02:51 PM
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I agree with your first paragraph completely. Seriously, OP don't overlook this insight.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 07:46 PM
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The don't kiss and tell part of this is awesome advise. You should personify this advise, especially in HS, and you can also use a little story with the girl to get her to keep her mouth shut. "At camp last summer me and this girl made out. Later everyone was talking about it. I cant believe she told everyone. Needless to say, it never happened again." Here you express to her what your expectations are and blatantly tell her if she blabs her big mouth, you'll next her. All without express commun…
/r/askTRP20/10/17 01:06 AM
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Fuck B on her own. That's what she wants. Sounds like once that happens she'll be open to A tagging along. It's also a good test for A. See if she can handle it.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 02:56 PM
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One PUA maxim not mentioned enough in trp is "talk to everyone". This means asking people what time it is, or if there's an ATM nearby on the way to the bar, talking to the person next to you on the train, etc. if you can't convince yourself that a random stranger wants to hear what you have to say, you'll never have the confidence you need to get an attractive woman's attention. In college, "talk to everyone" means hang with the other kids in your dorm, go everywhere you're invited, join clubs,…
/r/askTRP13/10/17 12:47 AM
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My guess. She was abused and is hiding in frumpy clothes. I'll bet you've got bigger fish to fry with this chick, you're hiding your head in the sand.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 04:56 PM
1

My guess. She was abused and is hiding in frumpy clothes. I'll bet you've got bigger fish to fry with this chick, you're hiding your head in the sand.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 04:55 PM
1

Buy her a goddamn snickers bar, the one that says "Slut" on it, and tell her you got her something, when's dinner." A trinket of any type really. A hello kitty phone case or tiara. When you get there be like "I was at the acme buying magnums and this made me think of you". Make a big deal out of it. It's a great gag. Or just get her some thick cut bacon.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 03:02 PM
2

Buy her a goddamn snickers bar, the one that says "Slut" on it, and tell her you got her something, when's dinner." A trinket of any type really. A hello kitty phone case or tiara. When you get there be like "I was at the acme buying magnums and this made me think of you". Make a big deal out of it. It's a great gag. Or just get her some thick cut bacon.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 03:00 PM
3

Book: No More Mr. Nice Guy
/r/askTRP06/10/17 02:23 PM
2

Be careful. I've worked with a lot of guys like this in construction. Had a boss like that for 2 years. When my ltr at the time told me she didn't like who I was turning into, it made me think and I realized she was right. I had become more defensive, grumpy, less energetic and less positive. Don't think you can just shrug it off for years.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 08:56 PM
4

I've run into this. Be dominant. "Little girl didn't do a good job wiping. Go to the bathroom!" Then smack! Worked like a charm. Spanking can continue upon her return for emphasis.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 12:12 AM
1

No. Remember, you're training her. Training her to like you, respect you, be attracted to you. Shooting the shit with her won't get you any points unless you have great text game. Which is rare, and you don't have it. But ignoring her completely won't help either. You need a better understanding of the concepts of frame, mission and dread. Sidebar? She calls, you answer. Tease her a bit, tell her it sucks she's bored (quote some Blink aka if you're bored then you're boring), you're busy (imply f…
/r/askTRP19/09/17 10:51 PM
5

Her last 3 messages she's practically begging you to stick to what you say and not respond. She is literally spelling out for you what she expects based on what you've told her. Her saying "I can't not talk to you for 3 days" is practically a dare. Don't respond. Hit on other girls. See her when she gets back.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 07:05 PM
1

Her last 3 messages...
/r/askTRP19/09/17 07:03 PM
1

The book "No More MrNice Guy" is about this and only this. Get the book. Do the exercises. Rinse and repeat. Also, affirmations and monk mode.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 12:58 PM
2

It's all in your head. Sometimes when I'm with a girl we have sex for over an hour but I can't cum. I have to stop, act like I'm going to sleep, then start again. For me, it's about control and fucking her when I want, as opposed to the requisite end of night lay. I get off on 'taking' her after she thinks we're done. It's annoying. For you, it might be about acceptance. Like, if she stays the night without you tucking the shit out of her, and is still into you in the morning, then it's validati…
/r/askTRP18/09/17 07:06 PM
4

Not caring about sex is the opposite of beta. Beta is caring so much about sex that you will do anything to get female attention, much less sex. Idiot
/r/askTRP18/09/17 06:57 PM
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I understand and agree with OP, but I don't think what he's talking about are "daddy issues" as the term is usually used. Does the problem he described exist? Yes, it's ubiquitous. But daddy problems as the term is usually used are issues stemming from abuse, abandonment, lack of love and support etc. These manifest into negative behaviors like promiscuity, clingyness, excessive jealousy, alcohol and drug abuse, and my personal favorite: relationship sabotage. Relationship sabotage stems from he…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 03:46 PM
2

The book emphasizes written activities as it progresses. Bring a notebook and pen.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 10:30 PM
1

Where?
/r/askTRP26/07/17 01:53 PM
1

You guys have established a weird twisted relationship wherein you express interest but don't follow through. She matches with you to see if you still want said dynamic. Let it go big guy. Or "I'm thinking we should take this relationship to the next level. The next 5 times we match, we should plan a date then ghost each other...What do you think?"
/r/askTRP26/07/17 12:02 AM
1

Very constructive.
/r/askTRP21/07/17 03:45 PM
1

Seriously? Look at your post history. At least my question is about a woman I'm fucking, not awkward conversations with complete strangers. I ask the question not because I place some huge importance on the outcome but because I can see this sort of issue coming up in the future considering the frame of sexual dominance I use with my plates. Asshole. Seriously, when was the last time a girl called you daddy? You got an a-card? You had the balls to tell a grown woman what to do with her pussy whi…
/r/askTRP21/07/17 12:17 PM
0

Here's an idea, read the post or don't comment.
/r/askTRP20/07/17 10:15 PM
7

Everyone makes mistakes. Try to learn from it (you already did) and get over it. Be careful of the meaning you attach to it. "I'm borderline abusive" is not the message you want to send yourself. "I've tested some boundaries and learned my lesson" is closer to what your subconscious needs to hear.
/r/askTRP20/07/17 12:50 PM
0

Comfort, validation, not wanting the night to end... it may sound super beta, but I can't say I'm totally against a platonic sleepover every once in a while. Sex isn't a mans only need.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 11:23 PM
7

Ok, someone set me straight. What aspect of her behavior was immoral? She got her needs met, he got all but one met. She didn't lie cheat or steal. She told him it wasn't going to happen, he chose to be beta (repeatedly). She liked it (her nature). His failure to create enough attraction to get laid is HIS. No?
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 09:46 PM
1

God I hope so...
/r/askTRP18/07/17 08:32 PM
6

Hahahaha. You think she's fucking other guys for your benefit? Seriously? She's doing it because she likes the dick. It's not a judgement against her. I like the pussy. But I don't go around saying "I'm just practicing to get it right for my unicorn". You want the most innocent explanation? She thinks each of them might be the one. But that's just her hamster. Just like your explanation is an internalization of her hamster.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 04:38 PM
2

I'm disgusted by hook worms burrowing into my body to lay eggs... "But it's natural" Yeah, and it's also not in my best interest. TBH, I don't give a fuck how many men she's been with. Not on a visceral level. It doesn't make me feel shit. However, my logical brain says an ltr with a woman like that is not a good idea, for all the reasons listed in this thread.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 04:31 PM
2

Ignoring her is a good start, but honestly, my guess is it's over. She got hit on by one too many better options, realizes that she is capable of some serious branch swinging and has one foot out the door. But here's the kicker... this is probably the best thing that could happen to you. In my experience guys who have ltr that young are keeping the girl as a crutch. This is a growth opportunity for you. The pain of loss is possibly the only way to grow up. That being said, don't be a pussy about…
/r/askTRP17/07/17 06:57 PM
19

Thank you for your concise review of Woman's Studies 101. It's a beautiful rendition of cultural history without any context. Have you ever considered why things were designed this way? Why 99% of all cultures across space and time created similar restrictions on women? You are clearly not familiar with the tenants of the subredit to which you post. Read the sidebar. So without going into the well covered evolutionary psychology of men and women, let's look at all that "subjugation" from an enti…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 05:21 PM
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Hey, I'm assuming I understand the drawbacks to taking your time before fucking. Things like momentum, sexual frame, they think you're weak for not escalating when you can... Can you be more specific and describe how to get past them?
/r/TheRedPill15/07/17 09:59 PM
1

She says she can't give you her number, but you can get it from her sister. You don't even have to read between the lines. She wants explicit permission from her sister. As usual, you need 'escalate' without looking needy. Not getting her number from her sister before you run into her again could be seen as weak on your part for not doing the work. Getting the number from her sister is following her directions and showing interest. Minor catch 22. If I were you, I'd push more at the start of nex…
/r/askTRP15/07/17 06:48 PM
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