The most fundamental rule you learn here is AWALT. Within all of us is an innate white knight wishing to protect vulnerable females. We want to believe in NAWALT so badly because our entire lives have been one never-ending brainwashing exercise involving television, movies, songs and books that women love men. Well if she loves me then of course I will protect and provide for her, I will even die for her. Well this is TRP and AWALT is already a bitter pill to swallow but it gets worse. Women do not love men. To be specific, they do not love their husband/partner. They can love their sons, father and brothers but partners are in a completely different category.
We already know this. Women choose partners for their utility: namely wealth, power and status. Women then manipulate the man to position herself first and foremost at the center of his universe so he expends the maximum amount of his wealth, time and effort on pleasing her. And when the man’s utility is exhausted or when she simply tires of him, he gets discarded. Where does love enter into this equation?
Want further evidence? Many years ago I read a survey in a woman’s magazine (sorry I don’t remember which one). One question really stood out. The question was: Were you genuinely in love with your husband when you said “I do” at the altar? A whopping 70% admitted they were not. (and how many of the other 30% were lying/in denial) There was a follow up question. If not in love then why did you marry him? The most popular answer was: “I expected I would grow to love him”. So you see women love the idea of marriage and all the benefits that flow to them but loving the husband as person is not part of the deal. There is a brief stage when she may “love” her partner, when pleasure hormones make us fall madly in love. This though is really just a drug induced infatuation. Dopamine floods our brains giving us a natural high. Our brain waves resemble those who are genuinely mad. Essentially our rational selves are temporarily overwhelmed so we ignore caution and reason and engage in sex repeatedly resulting in pregnancy. But this infatuation stage only lasts a few months at most. This is the only natural part of the human mating game. Marriage is unnatural. Monogamous long term relationships are unnatural. The romantic love which our entire entertainment industry is built around does not exist. She does not love you. She does not care what is best for you. She is not yours and never will be. That is the reality outside the matrix.