AWALT

sadomasochrist · 2017-11-18T14:04:28+00:00

You're a short term partner expecting to be treated like a long term partner.... why?

TRP exists because long term partners don't get treated like long term partners. But you are taking this entirely wrong. You are implying a woman should be honest to you, because you think you are AF. But it doesn't even matter. Though your observation from this is a good one, but it's one we already know as hypoagency. Image plays a part, but ultimately we already know women do not accept accountability for their actions.

If you're AF, your behavior is BB. If you're BB, that's what you're due. Your post is good content because it should help guys understand why to really digest this, but if you don't properly stomach it, you start thinking like you are. Even if you want to try and pretend that agreement wasn't one made out of weakness.

Your agreement makes no sense if you understand this. That is a provider's agreement. But again, your observation is good here.

Should help guys who fall into the "oh, just gotta up my SMV" camp understand it doesn't work that way.

SlightlyCyborg · 2017-11-18T19:00:41+00:00

Yeah, she's trying to get on some tinder Chads dick behind my back.

If she wasn't on the D yet, it may have not activated the conditions of the agreement in her head. If you haven't said anything to her about it, it might be interesting to see how the whole thing plays out (which after reading your comments, seems to be your plan). Also, since you made the agreement did you stipulate how and when she should tell you? She might try to postpone telling you for as long as possible after the act, but still do it before you two F again.

"[be] honest with me about what [you are] doing with others"

This is very vague as you did not establish a threshold of importance (Does talking with someone trigger the agreement? Does flirting trigger it? Does attempting to get sex trigger it? Or does just sex alone trigger it?) nor did you establish how or when she should tell you (when she is intending to do something with another, after she does something with another, before she does something with another).

This semi explicit agreement seems only shades away from a covert contract.

smirk_addict · 2017-11-18T22:07:21+00:00

This was too vague. Did she fuck the guy or was she trying to fuck the guy? You snoop through her phone?

TrogRP · 2017-11-19T06:27:19+00:00

non-monogamous for 5 months

Yeah shes been trying to get on tinder Chad's dick behind my back

It's nonmonogamous, who the hell cares buddy. Leave an open door to Chad D and they'll take it. Don't get butthurt, this is a nonevent.

Here's the AWALT: In a monogamous relationship, don't expect a sliver of trust.

Morphs_ · 2017-11-18T07:00:13+00:00

Can you elaborate a bit about the part you found out she was lying? Did you confront her, how did she react? Did you next her?

Title	AWALT
Author	YouLoveThisBTW
Upvotes	15
Comments	11
Date	November 17, 2017 10:39 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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