Red pill depression..

SpicyYeetJuice · 2020-04-04T06:12:43+00:00

If you stick your head in the toilet all your going to see is shit

If you believe all women are heartless back stabbers that’s all you’re gonna find and if you believe they’re caring people just like you and I that’s what you’re gonna find

markis655 · 2020-04-04T05:40:40+00:00

The point is you do what you want to do. If you want to have a relationship, have one. If you want to make lots of money and buy cool things, do it. If you'd rather stay single and not focus too much on making money and do something else then thats what you do. Redpill is a strategy for men to be successful in many different lifestyles. You choose the way you wanna go.

Cancermaxxed · 2020-04-04T07:00:18+00:00

You are manipulative yourself. You just don't realize it.

MattyAnon · 2020-04-04T14:16:46+00:00

She is LTR material as far as I can see.

Why are you still buying into the long term relationship / commitment dream? You know what women are like, you know how flawed this is.

REDPILL DEFENSE MECHANISM ACTIVATES: We’ve been drinking, watching a movie and out of nowhere I go rogue (due to subconsciously remembering the betrayal and hurt from past LTR) . I’m telling her I won’t put up with any of her bullshit, a “I run shit” rant and she hasn’t even done anything.. I believe it was a defense mechanism from my past LTR (obviously).

Yeah, this kind of rant will make women run. Keep it to yourself.

I see LTR’s as as waste of time, energy and effort

So why are you doing it?

I find myself drinking at night

Every night? Alone?

Yeah, you need to fix this.

So my question is what is the point of significant relationships?

I like to have relationships with women (ongoing friends with benefits, never less than two at a time).

What's the point? Well, what's the point of food, oxygen, friendship, sex, nice clothes? They're all just very nice to have, that's what the point is.

What is the point of making a ton of money if you don’t care about materialistic shit?

Not starving is nice.

Why invest into something that you get little return from?

Right - so don't invest in a woman expecting it to last "forever". Relationships are transient. They're good, but they don't last forever.

It's a bigger/longer version of cooking a nice meal: it costs a little money and a little time, then you enjoy it, then you make the next one.

Ps: My bad fellas on the long and choppy post. The redpill is depressing af..

The problem is that you've not given up your (blue pill) dream of the wife or permanent girlfriend. You see reality as a failure compared to your dream of exclusivity and a woman who repays your efforts.

Sadly it's just a dream, but reality is actually pretty great.

amwfhunter · 2020-04-04T06:40:18+00:00

Your life, your rules.

However, having lived a moderately eventful life I can offer some answers to your questions based on my experiences.

With respect to significant relationships, that all depends. If the woman in question is someone you fancy, it is a nice experience to be able to share your happiness with especially if her actions and behavior deserve your time. Just do not forget our red pill principles, keep frame and have an exit strategy. I would highly suggest you calculate all outcomes and possibilities of the situation. That or just don't. It is much easier to keep relations sexual and casual.

Onto financial matters. I believe everyone has a different definition of what is adequate. Desire for material goods is not a prerequisite to the pursuit of fortune. Money is simply a valuable instrument used to exchange or leverage for a good, service or experience. For example, in this scenario with covid, not having any excess money would definitely limit and restrict your life even more. In addition, once this virus has been contained, it may continue to have a negative impact on lifestyle. In otherwords, money does not always need to be used to buy things. It could simply offer peace of mind and security for uncertain times. You can allocate more time to your spiritual development when you do not have to worry about your next meal.

mr_Tobbor · 2020-04-04T12:19:58+00:00

You have an answer for every comment. So YOU have the answers! Bro.

_omufasa · 2020-04-04T15:28:48+00:00

I’m not drinking every night but I have went from once a week to 3-4 times a week (due to boredom of being in lockdown). I do play video game’s while I’m drinking. I should slow it down a bit.

Everything else bro you got 100% right. As a man, I still feel this drive to love, care and provide for a significant other. I know I could do that with red pilled lenses but I see it as a investment that could go sour real quick. Shit I still want kids some day. Would I ever have another LTR? No. Haven’t gotten my head around STR’s because again, the investment.

I think I’m going to stick to pumping and dumping. I gotta get over the fact that LTR’s aren’t for me. I’ll have to let go of this wolf in unicorn clothing if she isn’t about that casual life.

Thanks for the reply bro

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2020-04-05T15:18:37+00:00

This may be a bit long, so bear with you. I think I can identify with a lot of what you're going through.

Problem: I am as real (genuine) as a person can be

Nothing wrong with that, just know when to fucking play your cards close to your chest.

and I enjoy that same “real” being reciprocated.

Read "The Gervais Principle" series by Venkatesh Rao.

You're what he would call the "clueless" group.

This is the style of dialogue called Straight Talk. This is language that seeks to create consensus/understanding.

Women don't care about this, usually. By far their most common communication style is PowerTalk which is language that seeks to cause a specific behavior or response, regardless of it's truth value or regardless of understanding.

Don't get your hopes too high. Sex and deception are fundamentally entwined.

Play the game better.

The thing is I can read right through women, even my own mother.

I hesitate to say this but If that was true you wouldn't have been cheated on. So stop rolling yourself. You don't know what's brewing in their estrogen riddled heads. Nor is it necessary to know.

You don't need women to be genuine or even loyal to you. Only thing you need is to disregard and dismiss them when they do things you don't value.

I see through all their bullshit, and manipulative tactics. I know women can never truly love me for me.

Who cares?

Why aren't you loving you for you? That's the real fucking question.

You're not a dependent child anymore who needs to guarantee a supply of love and attention from your parents. You're an adult who is capable of doing shit yourself whenever necessary.

Getting upset that someone can't love you endlessly or unconditionally, is a vestige from when you were an infant.

At that point getting unconditional love and attention, 24/7/365 was critical for your survival. As an adult however, it might as well be a poison. Get respect instead.

This kind of thing can easily be a form of Learned Helplessness.

We’ve been drinking, watching a movie and out of nowhere I go rogue (due to subconsciously remembering the betrayal and hurt from past LTR). I’m telling her I won’t put up with any of her bullshit, a “I run shit” rant and she hasn’t even done anything..

Sounds like you're still pretty angry about your ex. That's understandable. Anger is a legitimate response to lying and injustice.

But you're right, going full retard on your current girl wasn't cool. That's not her problem.

If you're angry, be angry at the actual wrongdoers.

Don't be angry at yourself. Don't be angry at the latest girl. Not her problem, she has no reason to care.

If you really need to, go call up your ex, tell her she's a fucking lying pig and a failed human being. But a part of you is grateful because it meant you could do some personal growth, and didn't have to waste any more time on her.

Or else don't.

I don’t care about money, clothes, cars etc.

In other words, you're broke. LOL.

but this girl has been the first LTR type I’ve talked to since my last LTR. (For the past two years I’ve been pumping and dumping.) Anyways, I’ve been cold hearted. I don’t care about much. I see LTR’s as as waste of time, energy and effort.

Then don't commit.

If you don't see a point in an LTR, then for you, there isn't one.

Nobody can tell what to value or what not to value.

Even when the “perfect girl” comes around I can’t commit.

You're reacting, based on fear and anger. This is foolish. You need to be proactive.

Decide on a plan for the future. If you're not interested in an LTR, then say "no," or be honest and say "I'm not ready."

Just understand that by definition, a woman you're spinning as a plate will eventually stop spinning, fall, and break.

I find myself drinking at night (drinking as I type this if you haven’t already noticed..) I think a lot, and ask myself what’s the point.

Stop drinking alone. You're trying to self-medicate.

There are far more effective medicines for depression, with fewer side effects.

If you're frequently drinking alone at home, I strongly urge you to talk to a psychiatrist or at least a professional counselor.

What is the point of making a ton of money if you don’t care about materialistic shit?

Invest it, so you can retire early and then go do awesome things for shits and giggles.

oakanon1 · 2020-04-04T08:12:29+00:00

What's the point of serious relationships? Bro, relationships are the most important thing in life. Not just romantic, but all your relationships. The key is to build your life so that you don't depend on specific people to be happy. You should be happy on your own by pursuing your goals and having a social life that leads to more/better relationships. A deep connection with a woman is probably up there with the most fulfilling things in life. The problem is you can't depend on ONE girl for that. Even if you're married, the RP philosophy is that you will lose that connection if you depend on it. That connection doesn't mean you need a committed relationship. If this girl says she wants it and you don't feel it, move on. You'll feel this with someone else.

I've been burned twice by getting too dependent on LTRs for my happiness. I'll gladly get burned a third time because it's worth it. I know I have to maintain my frame and keep my life exciting and meaningful outside the relationship now, and I know that there's a high chance she'll wanna bounce for some reason eventually. Don't let RP kill the happiness you get from relationships, it should inform how you behave to some degree and will keep you from getting too dependent on the relationships.

mr_Tobbor · 2020-04-04T09:13:41+00:00

I am sorry man. You need antidepressants not posting on reddit. It is urgent. Go to see a doctor. If your girlfriend is a 9 you propably are a 10. It is obvious that you need biology not psychology. Take the pill. Not the red one. The serotonine inhibitor instead.

Title	Red pill depression..
Author	_omufasa
Upvotes	9
Comments	29
Date	April 4, 2020 5:20 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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