I’ll try to keep this short and sweet. Basically, I had this plate who was my favorite. She was super into me, the sex was the best we’ve both had, and she had a ton of great qualities.

Eventually she became my girlfriend. Things were great until last month. I lost a lot of structure in my life and became more needy and clingy then I’ve ever been. It wasn’t bad but definitely not attractive behavior (talking 24/7, being available, talking about bullshit). Basically I stopped valuing my time.

Now, we fought a bit and I’ve pulled back. I’m limiting our communication to when I’m free and reprioritizing my life to what it used to be when we first met. I know it’ll take a few days for things to change but is there anything else I can do to regain frame?