So giving you a bit of context, It's not been about 10 months in my LTR with this girl; She had a car at the begging started dating when we were 17 now were both 18 go to university on the other side of the country (UK); but she spends most of her time down here in London we're very local 10 minutes away tops. However when we hang out she's always very bitchy, constantly giving me shit tests and generally being very moody. Now I have started becoming more red pilled but overall ill say that I'm doing okay with the shit tests and keeping frame.
She starts fights telling me how she doesn't think I put enough in our relationship as she is. I have been distancing myself as she goes uni in a different country, and I have created a culture of trust in our relationship where i don't check her messages or try to control her. She does have male orbiters in her friendship group, (poor them 18 and still virgins)
Now I wanted to end things with her at the end of summer telling her about how a breakup might happen but she started crying in the car, so I decided to post pone it.
Now I am her first boyfriend (she was a virgin when we met), and she comes from a single mother family whereby her mother loves me; however whenever I go to visit she just ends up being moody and killing the whole vibe of the night by becoming moody and slashing out at her mother over petty things like her mother offering her food.
She does disrespect me sometimes, and she had a massive go at me at the new years party when a girl kissed me on the cheek, regardless kissed my friend back on the cheek, nevertheless after 2 minutes of her being jealous it ended in her demanding to fuck her at this party (which I did).
Now. I don't really know what to do, because she complains that I only want to see her whenever we shag or we get food; she is always texting me 24/7 especially after my friend kissing me on the cheek I feel that she is literally blowing my phone with her sending me dumb fucking memes all the time; now I have been ignoring her but she gets mad at that.
Some part of me wants to break up with her, shes constantly moody and gives me shit tests (which I do okay, always complains how i have a poker face and constantly ignore her) but I do kinda like her (I guess, shes a good girl?)
PS: she did tell her mother that a girl kissed me at a party and i felt slightly disrespected by that, I mean I've never been dumb enough to get on with girls that know her and generally if i do stuff when clubbing I keep it on the DL; she may be doing the same back at her uni.
She also did pay for the meals when I told her that after paying for the train tickets (50 quid) that she has to pay for the food and she did for three days when i went to visit her at uni.
So now my question to the redpill comunity is: Do you think I should continue my relationship with her althought of her abusiveness and constant disrespect towards me? shes very need or should i try to end things? I don't really know what to do I like her but she does annoy me with sending me long paragraphs of how I'm un-phased and constantly ignore everything she says. She also went to the cinema with one of her orbiters (who's just her friend the guy is a virgin apparently) and I played it quite cool told her to finess the guy for free popcorn.
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