Removing doubt

KirthWGersen · 2020-09-21T06:02:02+00:00

Touch comes before a kiss. Test the waters by touching her arm, hand, fingers. Compliment her on her earrings and touch her ear to get a better look. Anything that involves touch that is slightly more intimate than what you would do with a stranger. If she welcomes your touch, you can slowly escalate.

Sexuality is a dance. It begins with the two partners at a distance, gradually they draw closer, to the point they are touching, then they get closer and closer until one is inside the other. It is a natural process for two people who are attracted to one another, and doesn't need overthinking.

You don't go from 0 to 100 in a moment, it is totally unnatural (unless you are both blind drunk on alcohol or animal attraction).

Personally, I rarely kiss on a first date. It builds sexual tension. On the second date I make sure we are somewhere sex can comfortably happen (my home or hers).

MrNeverDryDick · 2020-09-20T22:26:25+00:00

If she’s not batting your hand away you’re good. I was like you too. I’d get laying down with a girl and start stroking her leg and she wouldn’t do anything. Then you get in your head like “oh shit maybe she feel awkward.” Nope.

She’s attracted from the get go for swiping right. She wants it to escalate by going home with you.

A lot of girls want to be taken. I’m not saying rape the bitch. But a lot will outright kinda not give much of any indicator when you escalate bc she’s waiting for you to pounce on her.

Some will immediately start touching back, those will be obvious. But some will just be passive to what you’re doing. If you’re not getting no’s, keep going.

Set little goals. Date going well? Invite her back for a movie. Watching the movie? Sit up on her. She’s not moving away? Suggest laying down with her to get comfy. She’s laying down? Start stroking her leg or arm or whatever. She’s not objecting? Nibble on that bitch’s ear. By this time she should be responsive but even if not and she’s still just chillen? Roll over her and kiss her. At this point she should be in to it. If not then stop bc 1) you just might be raping her and 2) she’s going to be an extremely passive and boring lay and you’re better off jerking off

BarryMcCockner010 · 2020-09-20T23:09:38+00:00

What do you consider "normal conversation"?? Small talk is for women. Tease her, ask questions you're interested in.

How far with kino did she let you go? A kiss is not the first move unless she's hella into you, just escalate until it would be weird not to kiss, keep it natural.

michael1962-01 · 2020-09-21T06:50:58+00:00

That is the problem.

Just do not start a normal conversation.

Escalate from the arrival.

Title	Removing doubt
Author	BarryMcCockner010
Upvotes	1
Comments	11
Date	September 20, 2020 8:09 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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