So this girl I cold approached stopped replying suddenly to me on whatsapp before we confirmed the place as she said she didnt have a car and I asked is it really far and it ended there.

Thus Im going to soft next and just go clubbing on the agreed time as I assume its fizzled out. However if she suddenly replies near the day to confirm and I tell her Im going to go clubbing instead is that inconsiderate or the right way to go cause holding frame and inspiring dread?

I feel this would be a orbiter compliance test but at the same time could be a shit test

Eg her: “we still going?” Me: “sorry Im gonna go clubbing instead”