Resolving anger phase

Apexk9 · 2015-12-06T08:21:19+00:00

Why do men have to learn how to "play the game" while women are never out of a relationship or a partner for more than a few months?

If you're attractive enough and jacked you don't

Men go after looks and women go after emotions. If a women is hot it doesn't matter how fucking stupid she is some dude will want to fuck her and do everything in his power to achieve that.

Moreover, there is no way I can get over the fact that most of the women I meet have more experience than me, and almost always try to use that experience against me

They shouldn't know they have more experience then you.

It's as if just because they know what they're looking for they can somehow predict whether a relationship would or wouldn't work out.

What women think they want and what women will do when in the right emotional state are two different entities.

How about us guys that have never even had a plate before, let alone a female touch them?

Go fuck a a whore a month for the next year. Should cost you about 1500 bucks and it will help desensitize you to a lot of the stuff you mention. [Find a review board in your area and pick them carefully to ensure you have the best experiences]

I'm terrified of meeting a gold digger. I'm also angry at the fact that, if I do one day become Chad, I'd be getting together with the very women who wouldn't have considered me or given me the time of day in my BP days, and I'd oppose that on principle alone. Part of me seeks some kind of Justice in all of this. Then again, another part of me knows that no one likes an incredibly bitter mofo with an agenda.

And your women might have been a fat bitch when she was younger who you would never have looked at twice but now she lost her weight learned how to put on make-up and here you are...

My biggest fear is that I will never have any intimate or dating experience by the time I reach my late 20's, and my only options will overwhelmingly be women who either have a higher partner count than I can reasonably tolerate, or women who only begin to notice me because they've hit the wall, need to settle down, or are otherwise exclusively attracted to me for my wealth, career, etc.

Dude you're a Male you got fucking until 50 to fuck 20 year old broads if you're fit. Practice makes perfect.

Discussing your prior unsuccesses would only work against you.

Don't talk about your prior relationships or lack thereof

I think above all, I've become too bitter and skeptical of the SMP to trust women for anything. I want options, but the only way I see myself generating them is after years of self-improvement. By that time, I would wake up to a reality where women my age are looking to "get serious" and settle down after years of riding the CC

Dont date women your age date 18 /19/20..etc year olds when you're 25 30 35 40...etc

Why do I have to wait all of my life just to get together with someone who isn't even in my cohort while women are never short on options?

Why did I have to spend 6 months in a Thailand hospital because some guy was sour a White boy came into his country and beat his ass in a Muai Thai tournament and broke all my ribs with some sort of iron pipe?

johnnydash · 2015-12-06T08:32:33+00:00

I want options, but the only way I see myself generating them is after years of self-improvement.

The only you see it right now.

Perspective changes with experience.

If you start doing the hard things right now, you will feel and see things different in a couple of months.

Thing is, the "hard things" is different for everybody. For some it could be moving out from their parents' basement, for others it could be going out more to improve their social/game skills. There is no universal prescription that works for everybody (well there is, but what I want to say is that you are your own tailor)

And you don't need years of self-improvement to get laid.

I know that the male-female dynamic is biologically unfair

Not unfair. It just is. Nature is nature.

Look, stop thinking so much. The way out is not through intellectualizing stuff (that's why you also have these bullshit fear-of-a-golddigger scenarios in your head). It's through making the "hard" choices (i.e. going on more dates).

Lastly, stop identifying yourself as a "dateless virgin". That is just some bullshit you keep on repeating to justify your current place. You were born with a cock. You've literally got everything you need to attract women. No one needs to know how many women you've been with. That is a shit-test. Read up on it. They will know by the way you act around them, not by some number that you blurt out.

Balderdash73 · 2015-12-06T09:03:45+00:00

I would give even money that you are talking school too much.

Title	Resolving anger phase
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Date	December 6, 2015 7:17 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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