I'll try to keep it short (not as short now that I've typed it). I work next to a girl I was trying to get with (when I was in Beta mode) a few months ago. This girl is still a very flirtatious friend and is very nice but... Sometimes she pisses me off. I've known her for a few years too but we aren't like super talkative friends.

Anyway, today mid conversation about something stupid she says she doesn't invite me out anymore because I'm always on my phone when we do go out.

She then explained the one time I was on my phone: I was meeting her at a restaurant, I arrived somewhat early and she was late, total wait time was about 30 minutes for me.

This was when I was near no longer giving a fuck about her, so I decided to hit up random girls in my contacts and talk to them.

She arrives and doesn't order food and just orders a drink. I'm continuing my conversation with random girls but only when I receive a reply, otherwise my attention was on her.

So this is where I'm now somewhat pissed. As a beta I chased her and bought her shit and never got anything. (lesson learned) I invited her out around 8 times, which she blew me off 5 times, either by not answering or cancelling last minute.

She has invited me out 3 times (with large time spans between them) and it wasn't even a date situation more like, come hang out as a friend with some other friends. Aka friend zone. Which as a beta I accepted each time.

So I'm pissed because she made it seem like I was the Douche in front of my coworkers.

Should I just ignore it and continue my day? I really want to text her (she left) and set her straight and put her in her place and tell her that was bullshit. - but I'm also having a stressful day so my anger is easily spiked.

Advice or questions?