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Tbh not always the case, could be, but not always. My LTR at the beginning would take my hand away any time I tried to initiate, she ended up just being shy about it when I actually just asked. Now she doesn't even give it a second thought. If his LTR is completely denying sex then there's an issue, mine just didn't want me using my hands but she still wanted to have sex.
/r/askTRP23/02/16 01:41 AM
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Had the same with my ex at one point. Basically came down to her wanting me again a few months later. I just plated her till I found someone better. She had a BF at the time too, he pretty much knew what was happening though and they broke it off very shortly after. They typically do this shit when their current life and sex life is really boring or it's the same shit over and over, they then dream of doing something crazy and it results in a sex dream with an ex.
/r/askTRP30/01/16 07:36 AM
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Would be nice if we knew the guy's username so we could get his attention... considering he deleted his profile (possible throwaway) he might not come back here now. Going through penguin_says_slide's profile I'm quite surprised by the comment... most of everything else he's said (from what I see) has been generally positive. Not sure wtf spurred his moment of rage hate to make that comment.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 05:39 AM
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You realize if she doesn't even give him her number, she probably doesn't even want to hang out. You typically call or text someone to hang out, not FB msg them. OP is right, cut her off and move on.
/r/seduction10/04/15 05:32 PM
5

Cheating is the definition of beta behavior. Grow some balls and breakup with your gf or at least tell her your seeing someone else and demote her to plate.
/r/askTRP17/01/15 06:52 PM
2

I plated my ex, however she came to me - I didn't ask or try for it, it was mainly because I stopped being beta, I also told her I'd never get back together with her but we could fuck around if she wanted. I fucked her once and found another girl and ultimately stopped talking to my ex. Honestly it's about self-control and you have to be 100% on never getting back with her. Then you do whatever the fuck you want.
/r/askTRP13/01/15 01:05 AM
2

Are you bisexual? I'm 100% sure I don't think about sex when talking to a guy. Women however. Good advice.
/r/askTRP31/10/14 10:24 PM
2

I'd at least set your motives clear with her before pursuing. Tell her you're not looking to just be friends with her. Multiple dates are fine, just remain Alpha - my cutoff is typically 3 dates if nothing escalates, this can vary though.
/r/askTRP22/10/14 04:14 AM
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As many as you want or can handle. I'm fine with 2 or 3, I like having my own time to hang out with friends more typically, so anymore would cut into that.
/r/askTRP21/10/14 04:02 AM
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The only thing you'd start doing is hanging out with her more - not meaning sex, but going places and doing things. Keep your Alpha mentality and stay Alpha, but just increase the time and things you do with her. That's really all there is to an LTR. Examples being, take her to dinner, theme parks, movies, etc.
/r/askTRP21/10/14 04:00 AM
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Nothing really. Just expect them to not come to you a lot. Single moms tend to be working a lot and are busy dealing with their kids so they can't come over at night all the time or vice versa. Otherwise treat them the same way. Just remember, they are usually single mothers for a reason.
/r/askTRP21/10/14 03:56 AM
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If it's only been a couple days, I doubt he's over it. He's most likely using "plate" as an excuse to himself to not end the relationship. Basically he hasn't fired her from the job, he only demoted her. He's probably thinking if she does well as "plate" status he will promote her back to gf. Basically he's not over her and he doesn't want to completely end it.
/r/askTRP20/10/14 11:37 PM
1

Why do you care? She is a plate. Unless you've developed oneitis for her. You need to ignore everything she is doing. Go out and do something without those friends or without her. Find another chick to bang.
/r/askTRP20/10/14 07:42 PM
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How long before your brother turned her into a plate? If it's only been a couple days, it's not enough time imo. Has he informed his ex-girlfriend of this? Or is he blindly assuming she's now a plate. It's not easy to throw away a relationship and then bring her back as a plate status within a few days.
/r/askTRP20/10/14 07:23 PM
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The issue with virgins is they don't work with RP concepts. They don't jump from guy to guy getting laid and using them. They still truly believe they will find a guy who is "beta" (but they don't know it) and Ltr with him. Except it typically won't crash and burn because she's never had anything worse or better. In simpler terms, she's not brainwashed in terms of being a bitch/whore. Typically. With a virgin it's better to take it slower and she usually is a possible Ltr. They are also great le…
/r/askTRP20/10/14 04:06 PM
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I take Adderall for work and by god am I glad to have it. I've found it doesn't affect me outside of work in normal life, I get appetite issues but that's it. Side effects differ for each person though. If you're worried of being dependent by taking it too long just limit yourself. I get a months supply but I don't take it on weekends and I'll typically skip it on days that I lift (m, w, f) because appetite. Don't worry too much about possible health issues, the doctor is supposed to test you fo…
/r/askTRP14/10/14 08:31 PM
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There's nothing that says you cannot have female friends. If you want to take a red pill stance on it, just treat them as actual friends and not like you are their orbiter. From my standpoint though, if you aren't bothered by it, there's nothing wrong. RP says don't be an orbiter, but that's really saying don't be a BP orbiter in the chance of trying to get laid with the girl. If you aren't trying to sleep with any of the girls and being an orbiter is fine with you for them, then there's no prob…
/r/askTRP30/09/14 05:53 AM
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Tell her you are busy working during the day, then say "we can plan/talk something after I'm done with work."
/r/askTRP30/09/14 12:48 AM
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That's perfectly reasonable. That was just from my own personal experiences. However, while there is always a different route, physical confrontation imo should never be the case especially at work. Just my 2c.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 04:11 AM
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Learn to ignore it. They do it to boost their own insecurities. Easy ways to deal with it would be: Laugh with them, accept anything they say, and ignore. Physical confrontations don't typically help, they will actually end up making things worse for you. The more you get bothered by what they say, the more they will do it. If they call you a bitch, laugh and say "that's funny", then turn around and go back to your work. If they say you suck dick, say "sure whatever", and then go back to work. K…
/r/askTRP15/09/14 12:35 AM
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Everyone will always have that guy or girl they want to fuck. Chances of her getting with a musician is <1%, even if she's invited backstage. Every guy more or less wants to fuck Kate Upton, will they? HAHA no. Personally, I wouldn't let it bother you. You can tell her to tone down the over-enthusiasm about musicians around you, but that's about it.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 01:57 AM
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To be honest... It's just a status. Do you want to deal with possible shit from your wife about it? Then don't accept it. Personally, I'd just accept it and go about my day. She's happy, and life goes on. Or if you want alternatives, make your wife do something to earn it back. Make it a game. IDK again, this is something I don't care much about and would rather just hit the accept button and go about my day.
/r/askTRP28/08/14 11:55 PM
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You can reassure her that there's nothing between you and J but there's no reason to cut off contact.
/r/askTRP28/08/14 05:54 PM
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Alright so you gym a lot, but what are you doing for the other 22 hours. (obvious sleep is obvious) If you are doing what I said for the "First" one, try doing the "Second" one. I've been in similar situations and the only way to get the girl off my mind was to literally force myself to ignore anything she did, basically making her a stranger.
/r/askTRP24/08/14 04:56 AM
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I'd never bring in the word spam into a text message when texting a girl for starters. Just don't over-text. The text messages should be 1-1 90% of the time, OR she should be texting you more than you are. Don't give her the option to decide if she can opt out. Lead her. Instead of asking IF she wants to do something, tell her to do something. Ex: Meet me for ice cream at X shop at Y time, let's go have some fun. You are telling her to come hang out with you. At which point she will either 1. Ig…
/r/seduction24/08/14 04:35 AM
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First: What are you doing with your daily life? Hit the gym, do some activities, get out more. This will allow you to meet more people, raise your SMV and essentially break the oneitis you have with your flatmate. The reason you started liking her is basically because you are around her A LOT. Thus subconsciously, she starts to appear a lot more attractive and flirty. Second: Don't put her on a pedestal. Ignore everything she does and keep little to no contact for a while until your oneitis star…
/r/askTRP24/08/14 04:24 AM
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I'd wait at least a day. Eagerness is tempting but also shows your desperation. The 3 day rule is kind of BS, it really depends on how the first time went. If you wait too long, the girl will think you aren't interested and move on. So I'd keep it around a 1-2 day wait. Rarely will a girl contract you first unless she's literally head over heels for you. They like the guy taking the lead. So don't wait for her. When you do contact her, just make it short and simple. Ex: Just checking up on you, …
/r/askTRP24/08/14 04:11 AM
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Do you want to remain friends? Do you want to fuck her? What is your plan of action here? Say no, cut contact. Say yes, remain friendly and try to fuck her if that's your goal. Since she's already admitted she likes you, you have an in. Lastly, the friend you told is kind of a dick/beta if he ends up running and telling the girl about conversations you have with him.
/r/askTRP24/08/14 04:04 AM
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To be honest, it doesn't really effect you. I do it once a day, and I won't say what shit I've had to get into to get off. However it's had no effect on my sex life or anything. I last 45 minutes sometimes online, in real life however I last 5-10 haha. You can try cutting down and seeing how it works for you or doing nofap, it didn't work for me though.
/r/askTRP07/08/14 12:30 AM
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I'm 6'1" and this is bullshit, where is my pussy rain? Oh right, height doesn't fucking matter.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 01:40 AM
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Well said newbie.
/r/askTRP22/07/14 12:57 AM
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Aye fellow Floridian! I'm going on a cruise in 4 days haha. I don't see a reason to stop texting her. Just because she's in Ohio doesn't mean you get nothing out of it. Stay in contact, keep your messages short, keep the cocky/mysterious personality.
/r/askTRP15/07/14 12:06 AM
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Hahaha well said. On topic, 30 minutes is fine, if she's interested she will most certainly drive to you 90% of the time. I have a girl who's 45 minutes away from me always saying she wants to come over. If you are a good time, anyone would drive 30-1h to see you.
/r/askTRP15/06/14 08:20 AM
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I disagree with you. Some topics on /r/sex might be retarded but they do have good advice. Similar to /r/theredpill - some topics on it are retarded/extreme while a majority is very good advice. To each their own though. Let him form his own opinion when he goes there.
/r/askTRP14/06/14 08:52 PM
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Fuck her a few times, make her your temporary plate until the job ends. The guard crap is bullshit. It's a line they pull over every guy to see if he goes beta and will emotionally fill them. You can take it slow for 3 dates (my max), then say "look, I like you, but if we don't start fucking, I'm done". ^ I have personally used that line and viola they agree to fuck.
/r/askTRP14/06/14 02:17 AM
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If she cheats once, she will cheat again. Hands down. Anything she says to you is bullshit to make you second guess yourself into thinking, "she won't do it again" "maybe I'm overreacting", which once you forgive her, she just hides it better next time.
/r/askTRP14/06/14 02:09 AM
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Laugh, be normal, have fun. Seriously. Shit will be awkward so make a few jokes, laugh it off, and pleasure yourselves. Few tips you probably already know: She can "go" multiple times, you typically "go" once, once you "go" don't just end it, finish her and make sure she enjoys it. Don't be afraid to ask her questions either (sex related of course). Check out r/sex for virgin advice too.
/r/askTRP14/06/14 02:06 AM
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That's true and I've considered that. However she has specifically asked me to come all 3 times after the initial "come hang out" text, I'll usually end up saying "have fun" implying I won't be going because she doesn't tell me where she's going, and she replies "join me", "you should come", etc. - which is directed at me. So the initial text might be to a bunch of people, but the follow up is directed at me.
/r/askTRP25/05/14 06:54 AM
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I tried that and I got the typical above responses. So I just ignored her. The issue I'm not understanding is she keeps asking me to hang out now, but then avoiding the destination when I say sure. It's not like she's picking a place, example: she's going bar hoping with friends and invites me to tag along, but she doesn't tell me which bar to go meet her at. I also don't immediately jump to point and say YES ILL GO!, I typically respond with give me details and time and I'll see if I can, in wh…
/r/askTRP25/05/14 06:04 AM
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This girl reconnected with me recently after we played soccer together like 6 years ago. I understand the next concept, just feels weird nexting someone I used to know. I have no problems nexting/full-blown ignoring girls I barely know.
/r/askTRP25/05/14 05:58 AM
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Sounds to me like he sees you as competition. Aka he's jealous of how you live your life and is trying to downplay you in front of people. Ignore him, what's your size compared to his? He picks you up, next time he does this sternly push him away and say stop picking me up. Very high chance he will say something demeaning like: "aww are you mad? Poor baby." Ignore whatever he says and walk away, do not answer him. He should stop, if he doesn't, move into a "next time you pick me up, I will physi…
/r/askTRP24/05/14 01:54 AM
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I'd try and escalate first before nexting her. She could just be nervous. Take charge and escalate, if she refuses your advances you explain to her you're not here to be her friend - if she says that's not what she wants then there's your answer. Move on.
/r/askTRP24/05/14 01:38 AM
1

This story reminded me of Scrubs. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z2Oc7Ny5rus
/r/askTRP18/05/14 12:46 AM
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Does whisper have a report feature or a phone number? I'd start by calling them to report it.
/r/askTRP14/05/14 06:16 PM
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Most women won't set up dates. You need to set it up, but be commanding. Say something like, "let's go to the movies at 7 on tuesday". Don't ask. Normally they will agree or give you an alternate time. I'm in the same situation as you currently, this girl doesn't text or initiate much, but she's always saying yes to hanging out and responding. It gets slightly annoying because you don't want to look needy having to always text first, but that's just how she is.
/r/askTRP13/05/14 03:11 PM
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No of course not, the 10 people arguing with you and making straight logical sense are unable to change your twisted position. Have you ever had sex before? Have you ever had sex before and stopped? It doesn't kill the mood if you're not a dumbass about it. Sex is meant to be fun and enjoyable, if she's not comfortable with something and says no, no matter how pathetic of a no it is, you stop, and you ask. If she set the boundaries beforehand where she strictly says if she says no in a weak tone…
/r/askTRP13/05/14 12:22 AM
1

That's called breaking frame and starting an unneeded argument.
/r/askTRP12/05/14 04:31 PM
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In this scenario though that might not be true, she's a virgin, thus she might not be used to dating. Secondly she could be shy because she has no experience, it's hard for someone to put their foot forward when they don't know where they are stepping.
/r/askTRP12/05/14 03:54 PM
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Depends on the relationship. If she's a plate, nope not really. You can give a "that sucks" type of comment, but pretty much ignore and let her deal with her problems. If she's your girlfriend? Pretty much the same thing with an added hug or something to show that you care about her. Just don't get sentimental and go on her level of feelings, stay on top of the situation. Also it depends on what she's upset with. If she's upset about something stupid and pointless, ignore it. If someone just die…
/r/askTRP11/05/14 07:26 AM
1

Uh... TIL...? Lol
/r/askTRP08/05/14 08:11 PM
1

Or you know... Use the bathroom?
/r/askTRP08/05/14 07:49 PM
1

I agree. And if you still want to fuck her, you'll need to escalate hard when she's wanting it (aka:overly flirty and dtf)- but if she bails on you again. Next her for good. If not, ignore and move on.
/r/askTRP08/05/14 04:33 AM
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It's the fact they were about to do it. She bailed midway and then a couple days later is nailing another dude like it's nothing. That brings up a huge red flag. If she fucked him, then fucked another guy a couple days later, that's fine because that's the relationship they have.
/r/askTRP08/05/14 04:27 AM
2

I agree but that would work much better in a closer relationship. 50m apart and not enough communication means she will probably be out communicating with other guys more. IMO the LDR won't last unless you figure something out to get you closer to her or her closer to you. I'd start looking for other girls then demote/breakup with her when you find one.
/r/askTRP08/05/14 04:23 AM
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This post is not at all related to TRP... Regardless... New job or new position? Either way you need to literally go to your boss and demand something be done. Fully explain your day to day situation tell him/her about the code review bullshit. Like seriously throw them both under the bus, hard, while it's moving over 100mph. Once that is done, aggressively, but politely, ask to be moved to a new position immediately or quit. I know it can be hard to quit a job and lose income for a while but wo…
/r/askTRP08/05/14 04:19 AM
1

Diet, cardio, and workout routine. There's different types of routines for what you are aiming for. There's strength/mass building and then there's tone/cut building. You are probably lifting and training your muscles to bulk instead of doing the exercises to tone them.
/r/askTRP08/05/14 01:09 AM
1

I've heard stories like that where the woman will get mad at her guy because she dreamt he cheated... And the guy breaks frame and argues or apologizes because of HER imagination. Ignore her, your wife will get pissed, get over it, then apologize to you with sexual acts of awesome.
/r/askTRP07/05/14 11:55 PM
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Uh does she know your FWBs? She's acting more like your GF. I'd tell your FWB to fuck off and say your going after the 9, but that could cause the FWB to speak badly of you and lose your chance with the 9. Either way, you need to set her straight, she sounds way to GF clingy.
/r/askTRP07/05/14 05:06 PM
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Well looks like he proposed anyway and she said yes. Taking bets on how long till she leaves him with 50%.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 05:08 AM
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No... not at all. The only time humor could be really related to being beta is when your throwing out stupid immature jokes and no one really laughs. If you get people laughing and everyone's attention is focused on you, that makes you the alpha. You are leading in positive attention. Seriousness plays an important roll, but that doesn't mean you go military and never smile or laugh once. If you find something funny, laugh, show people you can enjoy yourself. Also remember to not give a shit. An…
/r/askTRP07/05/14 04:50 AM
2

It sounds to me like you don't want to go because her parents will be there and you won't get to fuck her. (I say this because you say you wouldn't mind going with just her and you don't indicate that you dislike the parents) Go have a good time, be respectful of the parents. You might not get to visit Hong Kong again.
/r/askTRP07/05/14 04:36 AM
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Some girls will do this as a shit-test to see their BFs reaction. Normally they want to induce jealousy or a rage so you will go up and tell the guy to fuck off - which is considered breaking frame. Best way to counter is to ignore it, she can take care of herself and she can slap the guy across the face if she wanted to, but she's not, so either it's a shit-test or she needs to be demoted. While ignoring her, try and have fun by yourself, show her you can have a good time without her and if she…
/r/askTRP07/05/14 04:28 AM
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I'm in Orlando FL. Sounds interesting but so busy doubt I could make time for it.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 04:28 PM
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You handled it fine, she was definitely shit testing you, pretty sure it was to see if she could find out if she had some pull which she could maybe turn into a relationship later.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 04:27 PM
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I think you started fine and then started a fire mid conversation. Ignoring her is usually a good general RP response but you more or less pushed her away than attract. So ignoring her now would give you no benefit because she sees you now as a jerk and left. I wouldn't apologize though, you didn't do anything wrong. So in the beginning the handling was an 8, midway to end it turned into a 2. This is just my opinion though. Everyone's different.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 03:45 PM
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Regarding the food decisions, my entire family and myself are like this. So I would say it's pretty normal. Imo men usually go, "I want a steak, I don't give a shit where it comes from, I just want a steak. " So we know what we want per se, just we don't care/don't know where to get it, because there's 10 places to get steaks and I just want steak now. Thus, the start of "idk/idc where to go, you pick."
/r/askTRP06/05/14 07:43 AM
1

Any girl you successfully attract will not give a shit about size. If they do, next them immediately. Also learn to take jokes, she may comment on it, laugh it off and fuck her harder. Also become a god at oral or fingering. You don't need your dick for everything.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 07:32 AM
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When she asked what you needed from her, I'd have done something that escalated the conversation into you both hooking up. Imo, the "your soul" is where you killed it. Not sure what you could say currently to resolve that, but I don't think she will be down for the "benefits" anymore for the time being.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 07:29 AM
1

If you seduce a girl properly, 99% chance she won't give a shit about your size. If she does, she's a bitch and deserves to be dropped. Also if you're overly worried, just learn to pleasure her with other means. Become an oral master.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 06:50 AM
1

It more or less sounds like you're breaking frame and showing jealousy. You can word it however you like but the end result is you're showing jealousy because other guys are around her. Stop giving a shit, if she ends up cheating on you, she's a whore and like you state there are other women out there who would rather have you, so fuck her and leave her out to dry if that happens.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 06:43 AM
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The real true love in the movies doesn't really exist. At least not they way they show it. The relationship in movies can exist, but how the two people got there is fictional. Movie Example: In a movie, it's the perfect setting, they fall for each other, the guy knows exactly what to say and the girl doesnt give a shit she wants him immediately. Also the sex is perfect. Real Life Example: Guy is most likely using the same approach he's used on other women, attraction is probably dull from the wo…
/r/askTRP04/05/14 07:48 AM
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Europe...
/r/askTRP02/05/14 09:02 PM
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Dunno depends on how you spin it on Tinder, I've hooked up with a couple girls on it. I've found it easier to just get to the point and ask her to meet you somewhere fun, then you work your magic face to face.
/r/askTRP02/05/14 09:00 PM
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I agree, I think the eye contact should mainly be applied to any woman that catches your interest. Otherwise straight ahead looking like a man with a mission.
/r/askTRP28/04/14 06:41 PM
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I have handlebars installed in my ground. Don't worry I got this.
/r/askTRP25/04/14 12:28 AM
1

I agree, you are correct. I wouldn't treat it as a shit test because she's serious on her end.
/r/askTRP24/04/14 09:59 PM
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Alright thanks.
/r/askTRP24/04/14 09:59 PM
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Good advice thanks. Question: With sleep overs how bad are they? Also how do I prevent a sleep over if she's at my place late? Work in the early morning may work but she could say I'll leave when you leave. I could say I'm going out to meet a friend for drinks which would imply for her to leave. Idk thoughts?
/r/askTRP24/04/14 09:53 PM
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Yep, trust me I am the same way, when I like someone, I get way too attached and analytical like you. The only way is to ignore and start doing my own things. I was desperately wanting attention from this one girl before TRP, I broke away multiple times but I kept getting sucked back in. Finally after I found TRP I started going to the gym, playing tennis more, hitting up other friends, and doing my own things. Now if I see her, even if she's flirty towards me, I don't care. Whatever she does, I…
/r/askTRP24/04/14 09:48 PM
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I'm not saying I'd break frame and go into a relationship, I have no problems nexting the girl because it's not something I want or ready for. Don't worry I put myself first. I'd never tell that to a girl I just met, plus it would be worded completely differently than that if I did. However I've done it to an ex and she accepted it fine. My question is more on how to make her a Plate. If she asks to become BF/GF and saying I'm not ready is one way but I don't think women usually take the initiat…
/r/askTRP24/04/14 08:53 PM
1

Yes it was a shit test. If that was your response. It was decent. You didn't fail it at least. Usually I'll text her the day before and confirm, but I'll usually do it in a fun manner. Example: start with general talking, then lead into something like "you ready for x tomorrow?" and then add something witty after it. Usually she will laugh and say yes or they usually say something came up and they can't. If she says yes and then the next day last minute cancels, I say JUST ok. Nothing else. Then…
/r/askTRP24/04/14 08:46 PM
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Can you clarify? Are you thinking about you screwing her and wanting to repeat it and those thoughts of wanting to do that bother you? Or are you thinking about her actions and over analyzing the situations? Just make yourself busy, put her on ignore and ask a man friend to go out for drinks instead. When you feel like fucking her again then go back at it. If you feel yourself getting too emotionally attached then break yourself away and do something else. You cannot just shut your emotions down…
/r/askTRP24/04/14 08:38 PM
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I don't have kids so don't blindly follow whatever I say, this is just my opinion. Call it out on your daughter and make the daughter pay the brother double back. And make her work for it. It's hard to teach someone at a young age to not do something in the future. You tell your 12 year old kid to not have sex and curse and they are doing it behind your back regardless. So I'm not sure how to go about it, but I don't think it should be ignored.
/r/askTRP24/04/14 08:06 PM
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Why are you sounding disappointed when we are telling you to next her. Dude she cheated on you, played you, and cheated again. You are currently her beta fuck. Yes it sucks your going to be single, yes it sucks your going to not have sex for a while. But for the love of God man stop being a dumbass! She's playing you and you're letting it continue. You don't want her and you don't need her. Man up and tell her to GTFO and maintain your frame when doing so. Because yes she's going to fucking cry …
/r/askTRP24/04/14 08:01 PM
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Normally it'd be better to just send the OP a PM about it. Otherwise you get bullshit and dumbasses like that.
/r/askTRP24/04/14 03:51 AM
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Do Tinder and say the most ridiculously alpha shit you can think of. It's good practice for learning what to say and not caring about the results. I got a Tinder date the other day from just being forward. Skip all the w questions until you physically meet.
/r/askTRP24/04/14 12:19 AM
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Doesn't sound needy, you're just trying to become more friendly. You don't text them every day so you're fine. I text my friends once every few days and have a short conversation and usually I'll say let's go grab a beer or something. Just remember everyone has a life and a job (usually) so they might not be available all the time.
/r/askTRP23/04/14 02:21 PM
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He has guy friends and one girl (friend). There's nothing wrong with having friends of the opposite sex. I understand your point though, hang out with your guy friends more, invite them out, and talk about stupid shit.
/r/askTRP23/04/14 02:14 PM
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Lol but you pay before you do anything together. You have no idea if she's earned it or will earn it later. You're paying at the start of the date not at the end. If it was a dinner yes, you pay when your done and you can judge and see if she's earned it, with golf you pay first, so I don't get to judge her and decide later - aka it's a gamble.
/r/askTRP23/04/14 01:43 PM
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Well yes... That's basically like gambling though: I'm paying for her and hoping she's going to make it worth the money I spent. Really that's just looking at it from another angle. I'll pay for it to enjoy my time with this girl. I'll pay for it because I'm nice and she will see that. I'll pay for it because I want her to fuck me later. It's all the same thing just said differently, you end up paying regardless to increase your likeability.
/r/askTRP23/04/14 06:13 AM
1

Indeed thanks! She made a move to pay her half at golf but I payed for it anyway and she said thanks, so she was at least prepared to pay for herself. Either way it was a good learning experience for me.
/r/askTRP23/04/14 06:03 AM
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It's the first date, you can't really pay her share if she's earned it when it's basically the first time meeting.
/r/askTRP23/04/14 05:59 AM
1

I'll store it for future use. Question though what if she's not 21 yet? Haha I'll buy the Putt Putt if you buy the apple juice after?
/r/askTRP23/04/14 05:58 AM
1

The negotiating is interesting and I'll probably use it in the future, but your "terms" so to speak, came off very strong for me. I know it's about being alpha and not giving a fuck and going balls to the walls sometimes, but I'm not at that point yet. By strong I mean the cum in your face part... I'd use something different imo. That's just me though. Regardless I appreciate the advice.
/r/askTRP23/04/14 05:56 AM
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As I said I have no issues paying for it. I read a few posts on TRP saying make her pay her half on the first date, I was just asking for reassurance on what to do because I'm very new to dating in general.
/r/askTRP23/04/14 05:51 AM
1

Yes thanks, I did pay for the golf. I read previously dinner on a first date wasn't a good idea so that's why I decided with something fun instead. I appreciate the advice.
/r/askTRP23/04/14 05:49 AM
1

Your post seems a bit agitated. I'm not experienced in dating to begin with. Like I previously stated though I have no problems paying for it, money isn't an issue - I just didn't want to come off as the guy who pays for everything again. Also I did pay for it, it wasn't a huge deal for me since it's what I normally do.
/r/askTRP23/04/14 05:47 AM
2

Well... I'm the one who switched it to Putt Putt due to the time. So does that mean I should pay? I have no problems doing so if it's correct in that assumption.
/r/askTRP21/04/14 12:58 AM
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If you are not interested you can just ignore it. I'd have probably responded with a "Hi...?" or something to indicate why are you messaging me? At which point she will mostly likely follow up with some kind of apology about how she acted back then. After that you can spin the conversation any way you want.
/r/askTRP17/04/14 07:16 PM
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Ignore and continue texting her mother. 1. Ignoring her will piss her off because she's not getting validation from you. 2. You continue being friendly with her parents, which pisses her off more because she can't do anything about it.
/r/askTRP17/04/14 07:13 PM
1

Not a fault to talk to your ex again, many red pills will say never talk to your ex again, but I disagree to some standard. I've made up with a few exs of mine and we stay friends, I just learned to maintain frame and not give any shits about them anymore. You can do the same with your ex, maintain frame, show her you don't need her, and hell you could even become FWBs with her, but you need to clearly outline your intentions, fuck her and maintain frame if that's what you want.
/r/askTRP16/04/14 04:23 AM
2

I had this happen one time - I get a response 3 days later saying she lost her phone. Imagine perfect timing on that huh? She could have genuinely lost her phone and it's just horrible luck for you. She blew you off and will respond a day later with something like: "Sorry fell asleep haha, how are you?" or some other type of BS apology which usually equates to I had other plans but didn't want to tell you because I don't know how to reschedule.
/r/askTRP16/04/14 04:15 AM
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Do you know how to cook? If not take a cooking class. Granted learning new things may not fall into the I would find this interesting category, but learning life skills is a big +1 for ladies and at the same time you get put in an environment where you can be relaxed and have fun. What do you do outside of work? Go home and play video games until sunrise? They have video game clubs out there. Join a gaming tournament, even if you're the worst player there and you lose in round 1 you can still so…
/r/askTRP07/04/14 09:44 PM
1

You are going to those events for work. That's not really socializing in a fun and relaxed environment. Joining a club and doing something you enjoy will allow you to be who you are outside the workplace and help you make friends and meet women who enjoy your real personality.
/r/askTRP07/04/14 09:31 PM
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Find hobbies you enjoy and look for groups that do the same. Do you like playing a sport? Join a team. Like reading? Join a book club. Want to learn about something? Find a class with other people. Try to fill your week up with things you want to do and at the same time involves other people.
/r/askTRP07/04/14 09:20 PM
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Not necessarily. If he had said nope, there's the possibility she would think he was not interested in her and she would have moved on. The chances of telling a girl you don't want to fuck her when the setting is there and then having her come back to you seems kind of slim.
/r/askTRP07/04/14 04:42 AM
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It bothered you because deep down you liked her and seeing her with someone else induced jealousy or a sadness. You need to realize if you won't pursue, you need to sever any emotional attachment and just stay friends. If you don't have the alpha balls to get with her, then you shouldn't be getting those feelings when someone else grabs her. Best thing for you to do is start doing your own daily activities to distract yourself from her. You can still maintain the friendship, but limit contact un…
/r/askTRP07/04/14 04:33 AM
4

Sounds like you had it right at the beginning and then went way too beta. You can go a bit beta to essentially show you love to your SO but don't completely go full beta. (Similar to never go full retard, you went full retard) Honestly if you want her back, ignore her, and move on. Why? Because you need to regain your Alpha-ness, hit the gym, socialize, go back to how you were at the start of your relationship. Once you do, she will either come back to you, or you will find someone else. Just re…
/r/askTRP06/04/14 02:56 AM
2

If you want to fuck your ex again, then respond and tell her you'd fuck her and that's it. No emotional attachment. If you don't want to fuck her, then ignore it or respond with something along then lines of fuck you and fuck off.
/r/askTRP05/04/14 05:36 PM
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If she's still screwing him then obviously she doesn't care or its not entirely true.
/r/askTRP04/04/14 04:23 PM
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Based on my own experiences yes. Women, even if they are interested in you, do not like to initiate, they will look towards the guy to make plans and make things exciting. You could compare it to: you're asking her to come up to you at the bar now and say let's get a drink. Pretty easy to make it up though, just invite her out to something and specify the time and place. You should get two answers: Yes or I can't that day or that time. Yes and she flakes again, then next. If she says she can't, …
/r/askTRP03/04/14 01:41 PM
1

I can't remember who told me this but his friend used to go to Men's Warehouse and just tell the workers there to pick out good clothes/suits and make him look good as hell. Price wasn't an issue for him of course so he'd be dropping 2.5G on one suit, but he would be the most well dressed guy there was. You could probably do the same just give them your budget and let them go to work.
/r/askTRP03/04/14 05:04 AM
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To be honest, if you want to have something with her, I'd give it another shot. Most people next right when the girl flakes, but that's usually because they are looking for a plate to spin. People make mistakes, I've been in that situation where I thought something was tomorrow and it was actually today and I missed it. Anyway, I would try to get her out one more time and see how it goes from there. If she flakes two times in a row after she's agreed, then yea she's probably not interested enoug…
/r/askTRP03/04/14 04:51 AM
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No it's not. When it happened to me she would not even apologize or text/call back at a later time, granted I'll admit it pissed me off, but I forgave and forgot and tried again, and it happened again. Regardless, I learned my lesson. So I pass on my experience. If they truly care or want to hang out and something comes up, they will most certainly try to set something new up or apologize and promise for another time. Otherwise cut your losses early before you get too attached.
/r/seduction31/03/14 08:08 PM
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I was in a very similar position as you OP, except I did nothing about it. You need to casually let her know it wasn't nice and that she basically ditched you. From my experience I let it continue and shrugged it off, and it happened almost 4 more times. In continuing to shrug it off I showed her I would continue to chase her and she could walk all over me. If you want something to come from it, stand your ground now and she will realize she can't make you chase her. You want her to chase you. I…
/r/seduction31/03/14 03:27 PM
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You are starting to bend to her will by wanting something for HER to work. Don't start acting like her little bitch again, you are your own man now. Remember she cheated on you, take her off your pedestal. Take it into your own hands and lead it. If you want to do her, take charge of it and do her.
/r/askTRP29/03/14 03:38 AM
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My ex wants to do the same thing... but I already told her I wouldn't date her again and she's still for it. If you really want to just fuck your ex once you need to remove the feelings of guilt in hurting her current relationship. Hit it n Quit it or do FWB, with no feelings in the mix. If her current relationship breaks up, then it's her fault for cheating on her now BF in the first place, don't give into that BS and feel guilty.
/r/askTRP29/03/14 01:36 AM
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Well... I think what he more or less means is: How the hell do I engage a woman without being the "nice guy"? From what I see he's not asking for pick up lines, just general conversation starters that don't directly plunge him into the "nice guy zone".
/r/askTRP28/03/14 05:17 AM
1

If she replies late, I'd probably say you went and did something else or not bother replying. Could be a shit test to see if she can get you to come at her whistle. If she doesn't reply, yea do something else or go to another party. Don't let it ruin your night.
/r/askTRP27/03/14 10:37 PM
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Not anymore, this place opened my eyes to my stupidity. Granted I'm still new so obviously I'll run into situations like this one, but that's what this community is for.
/r/askTRP27/03/14 10:34 PM
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I don't have a story but normally (from what I've read), if it's a date the guy usually buys meal #1 and splits the rest after that. Though... Since she was buying a shit ton of drinks, I'd make her split it as well. You're not there to be her free drink ride. Good job sir!
/r/askTRP27/03/14 10:32 PM
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I just submitted my own issue so I was browsing others haha. I'm new to TRP so my advice isn't godly. Do you know where the party is at? Normally parties happen around 7-9pm and last until the AM. Anyone else besides her know about the party?
/r/askTRP27/03/14 10:29 PM
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You're alright for a crazy cat... Lol. Just going to go home and relax then. Glad I found TRP, otherwise I wouldn't have anywhere to type this and get some feedback and cool off lol. Also I'd still be beta and chasing her...
/r/askTRP27/03/14 10:27 PM
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As a new RP member without a girl currently... This post is hard for me to sympathize with haha.
/r/askTRP27/03/14 10:21 PM
1

I don't have an answer for you on what to say, but I'd say you still have a chance... Just she doesn't sound interested in you currently, based on that response.
/r/askTRP27/03/14 10:18 PM
1

Yea typing it relieved a lot of stress. The issue is I'm still new to TRP and I still have beta feelings for her, but I don't let her walk over me anymore. It just irritated me she said it in front of my coworkers and I to degrade me and help her seem cool. (I've known her for a long time, so I know she didn't necessarily mean it like that, but that's how it came off as) I retaliated by saying I invited her and she left me waiting for 30 minutes but since she was the center of attention, my word…
/r/askTRP27/03/14 10:13 PM
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