I was smashing this FWB for a few months. She would tell me how special I was and how she never met anyone like me blah blah blah. But I never lost composure. She was an 8 but nothing special. But the sex was insane. Let me go inside her and do what I want anytime I wanted.

She wanted a 3 some with another girl so one night I asked one of her friends if she was down for a 3 some and her friends told her I was a scumbag. Funny thing is that she asked her friend before I did (she would ask girls all the time if they wanted a 3some). From there she went from texting me all day to barely responding saying She didn’t think this would work because her friends didn’t like me. From saying I was her soul mate to ghosting me.

I never fall but I did and developed oneitis. Definitely was playing me. Seeing if I would break and try to crawl back. Saw her one time more and she denied sex. Also said that I was too aggressive and that I needed to ask permission to have sex, almost like I raped her. Wtf.

I deleted and blocked her but I feel like I totally was a bitch on this one, totally lost frame because the sex was so good.

Was she just playing me or was it because her friends rejecting me, was a social indicator that I wouldn’t stick around long term? What should I have done differently?