Sadness about other men

redhawkes · 2019-03-27T20:01:54+00:00

You can't change others, nor give unsolicited advice/opinions.

Not your monkeys, not your circus.

Project_Zero_Betas · 2019-03-27T20:51:27+00:00

You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink it.

throwawayycheyeah · 2019-03-27T22:03:08+00:00

I feel the same way sometimes. But life is about balance, they are most definitely thinking similar thoughts about you. Just give advice when they ask for it and move on. Being beta is easy, alot easier than facing reality, and some guys just want an easy life where they allow their gf or wife to call all the shots while they sit back.

saganist91 · 2019-03-28T07:16:20+00:00

Many if not most men unfortunately don't give a shit about each other. Treachery is rampant. Some men take it a step further and are actively trying to sabotage their brethren. Just take a look and see how much male-on-male violence there is. Mateguarding is one example. I have heard some people say women get off on watching men compete for them, even violently so. I would not worry about it too much unless it is job your, if you are some kind of counselor or coach or whatever. It is pretty much every man for himself in this world. Some men cannot be helped. Some men are listening to reason, won't take any advice or may even lash out violently when trying to help them. They have to seek help for themselves. Morpheus did not follow Neo around.

learningeveryday7 · 2019-03-27T20:28:08+00:00

I’m in the exact same situation as you. I often catch myself feeling sad for others who are still caught in the ‘‘matrix” and wish to help them. It seems the best way to help is to drop hints and hope for them to have a positive traumatic event-I’ve tried more direct approaches but most people do NOT have the capacity to unplug without trauma. In the end, does it really matter if they know what you think they should? They may be thinking the same about you from a blue-pilled perspective. I remind myself of my journey through TRP and know that even if they never internalize it the world will continue on unperturbed, and it’s not that big of a deal.

Title	Sadness about other men
Author	Broken_and_Ugly
Upvotes	1
Comments	24
Date	March 27, 2019 7:56 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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