The other night I was at a bar taking photos for a friends band (not playing but for their album cover). I didn’t look my best, dressed kinda shitty, was a little tipsy etc...

I was outside smoking a cig (don’t wanna hear it), and was talking with a 9 and her friend and I’m a 6 at best. Since I was there hanging with friends, doing my own thing and chatting with random people she became interested. My friends left so I started talking with her, touching her in the “right” spots blah blah. She was interested that I was a photographer and by not giving her my full attention she did the usual iois. One shit test I failed was giving her cigs, I think. Some random ugly dude started to talk with us as he was trying to get with her but I acted as if we were already a “thing” and did the “saved her” situation.

We ended up in her car and making out, feeling her up and she did the ole “I’m on my period” thing and I just said “well looks like things will get a lil messy then”. We didn’t end up having sex because it’s late and we both had to be up in 4/5 hours.

Told her to text me when she gets home safe and she did and also told me it was cold in her house. I replied with something like if only I was there to keep you warm but I will see you tomorrow night. Then yesterday I texted her that I wasn’t kidding about keeping her warm and it’s cold outside. She said awwww I’m hanging with a friend or something. I said awesome have fun let’s plan something for Sunday and then no reply.

A little info to maybe help: I’m in my late 20s, I think she is in her 30s I have no clue and she has an 11 year old son. We are both professionals in the city and met at a dive bar outside. I’m not getting oneitis, I have 2 dates set up today and she has a kid.

How do I go about contacting her again if at all? Do I text her something goofy tomorrow (reflects my personality)? Or just leave it be and move on?