Had a first date with her on Sunday. We went to a bar, sit next to each other and talked for ~2 hours. A lot of kino by my side. I k-closed and she had to leave because she told me that her friends are on a party and she has to pick them up and drive them home. At first felt like an excuse, but her friend called at some point and they talked and you could hear her pretty drunk, telling her to pick her up. We kissed and said goodbye.

We texted that same night and I asked her out again. She said she’s free on 3rd January. Since then I limited the texting. She tried to start a convo before NYE like whatcha doing and stuff but I kept it short. I ignored her for the next days until she texts me again „happy new year“ and I simply wished her the same, didn’t text until today. Today told her let’s meet at 6pm. And then she suddenly tells me this: „can we reschedule for tomorrow? My grandpa doesn’t feel good I‘d like to drive and sleep there“

Tbh this sounds like a huge bs excuse and I read those line like „chad wants to fuck tonight, I’m gonna sleep there, maybe we can meet tmrw“ It stings. Guys, how to proceed her? Don’t overthink? I told her „Ok. Gonna check if I have time and let you know later“

Should I just tell her later that we can meet tomorrow and if she flakes again fucking next her?