Been in to trp for about a year plus but being from a place where quality women tend to require some form of emotional connection before face to face dates are accepted. The thing is that i cant seem to get my past 2 targets to open up to me and i tend to get very angry(leading to bad decisions) when other guys who came into the picture later than me gets better response from the girls.

is there a way around this negative mindset besides abundance mentality as this mindset have prevented me from being successful every time?

and is there a solution interpersonal connections part as well?