Met a girl through a dating website and hit it off. First date was drinks and some food and it went well. Kiss closed.

Second date was a few days later and I went over her place and had dinner / watched a few movies. Made out a little bit but overall it was again a good time.

The next day I was leaving to go on vacation for a week to a different country. Here's where the mistakes started.

1) Asked about potentially her downloading WhatsApp to talk through WiFi since I wouldn't have service. She declined and opted for just snapchat. She also said in a joking way "I'm not going anywhere". Didn't really pick up on that and probably should have not texted her at all while I was gone.

2) Texted atleast a few times every day. Probably saw me as increasingly unattractive and wondering why I'm not off enjoying my vacation. Definitely had one-itis.

3) Found out her family was going to be there for a few days visiting when I'd be coming home. Kinda threw off my plans since I was hoping to see her when I got back on the weekend. Kept texting her.

4) Trying to make friendly banter when she was out grabbing drinks with her brother. Realized she was giving me short answers and stopped texting.

5) Decided the next day to not text. Realized I was coming on way too hard. Got a little buzzed with friends and texted her once at night. No response back.

The next morning she texted me "good morning" and a little small talk. Gave her a quick call and made some more small talk about family and such. Asked if she was free to meet up this week. She seemed to fumble around a little bit and landed on agreeing to Friday.

Here's where I knew I failed miserably....she came out and said maybe can meet lunch earlier in the week but retracted from that immediately. She then went on to explain she was testing me the previous day to see if I wouldn't text her. I did. I failed. She also said she was hoping that we just caught when I got back from vacation and not talk during. Another fail.

After we hung up (and making the date for Friday) I'm determined to not text her again unless it's just details for the Friday date.

I realize I still have a little bit of one-itis for this girl. Is there any hope of saving this? Already started to reach out to other girls just in case. And to try and cure my one-itis.

Thanks for reading.