OK so I have been with a LOT of girls. I had one bad relationship and went near no-one for 5 years. It took a lot to recover or even want to trust someone again. I met this girl 7 weeks ago. Well we had known each other before a little. But we have met up a lot in 7 weeks. Things seemed to go really fast. Iv been out with dinner with her mother, met her friends, stayed at hers, she stayed at mine, sex, we've met each others kids etc We are in a relationship officially. But when I first mentioned changing her Facebook status she said something about needing to tell her brother first. 2 weeks later I mentioned it and she said she doesn't want to tell her mum yet because she will say it's too early for us to be official, so I didn't ask again. Thinking back now I can't help but wonder is this a red flag... I seem to have lost my touch with women and probably still have some trust issues. She's a super hot girl, and I just wanted to let other lads know she's mine. Am I being stupid about this or should I be concerned. I keep over thinking it. 27M / 24F