should i bother?

Josewasframed · 2016-01-10T21:29:31+00:00

Does she know you don't have a car?

This one is a little tricky. If you tell her you don't have a car, then she may next you. Just saying, be prepared. If you don't bring it up or lie, then that's no bueno either.

But above all else, you need to consider what you want. Do you really want to bike there to the center? Yes, then do it. No, then don't. It's that simple.

I forget from time to time as well, but we often forget dating is a two-way street. Yes, it's good to have a little understanding and ability to adapt to suit the other person's situation when dating, but do not forget that it's you going on a date too. By that I mean, do you think she would stop to consider what you thought about the location? Is she over on her side stressing out, hoping not to lose you because she changed the location? These are the questions to ask my friend.

Good luck, hopefully someone else has a better response than I do.

gainzndamez · 2016-01-10T21:40:54+00:00

Can you take public transit to the city center? Do you want to?

SnugglySadist · 2016-01-10T21:22:43+00:00

Don't ask, tell when trying to set up a date. I will be at X at Y time. etc..

Title	should i bother?
Author	bittr_n_swt
Upvotes	2
Comments	8
Date	January 10, 2016 9:14 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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