so all I have wanted since I was 16 was a loving husband and kids, and some independent life of some form (some friends or creative work). i have never cheated and feel i never would. i just want someone to share this life with and grow old with. to give all my love to. i also feel that this is all that most women want too. is it really possible that i am so super rare in what i want. that what i truely want out of this life more than anything is so rare it would make me a 'unicorn' i've been in two long term relationships, both were ended because the man got violent towards me. im 26 now and want what i always did since i was a little, someone to love and love me tenderly. these sites make me feel it is an impossible dream to find a loyal guy that will love you, instead of treating you like a disposable object... if your aims here are to help men get what they want from women, by any means, whatever it may be, having a harem or one chick, or giving up on women forever. what would you honestly advise women who just want true love and a man that wont let them down? should i follow your third group of men and give up on love? i'm 26 now prettyish imo