Last night I went out with a girl for the first time in which everything went well— I believe I could have escalated much more than I did, but I made good progress in my skillset. Towards the end of that date, she hinted towards taking me out to eat somewhere & also asked me what will I be doing today (Saturday).

I have plans for today, but apart of me wants to fit her into my schedule this night so I can go for the kill, but I’m telling myself that I shouldn’t invite her for two reasons: 1) I want some time for myself outside of the plans I have with others today and 2) seeing her back to back days is not really that appealing to me as this will be a lot of time we’ve spent together in a short amount of time; I need some time away from her to “miss” her and vice-versa

As I write this, I notice that an answer to my problems is that I need options— if I has someone else to come over tonight, this wouldn’t even be a post. I’ll work on that, but for now, what do you guys think?