Should I leave the group?

SwallowedThePill · 2016-09-23T07:06:38+00:00

Just don't interact with her directly, don't responds to her stuff in group chat. And remember the opposite of love is not hate, but indifference. She will lose her mind when you're indifferent about her.

That being said, if it drives you crazy, just leave the group man. Do what you want to do.

Rocketmens · 2016-09-23T12:17:12+00:00

I don't understand why some you guys suggest to play mindgames with her like "act like you don't care", "be indifferent"

Dude if she hurt you, you need to cut that shit away. Leave the group and when they ask stand your ground and say "why do you think? I cared about her and she is being passive agressive".

Dude fuck these mindgames. Its so fucking dumb and a total waste of time. If they truly are your friends they should understand you.

AmlanceJockey · 2016-09-23T08:52:48+00:00

Leaving shows you care enough to leave. Mute the group"s notifications and live your life. Sometimes groupme is good for coordinating shit, but usually it becomes facebook lite. You won't miss it. If they make plans without you in the group me and no1 texts you to join, they see you as low value. Either they see you as low value even though you arent and you should leave that circle for greener pastures. OR you are low value and should be focusing on fixing that and you should leave the group.

Disaster_Voyeurism · 2016-09-23T09:21:19+00:00

If you're close friends with everyone I wouldn't. If you have other groups of friends just leave and see if your friends stick with her or take your side, when it's blatant she's humiliating and insulting you.

kolluminko · 2016-09-23T10:28:16+00:00

do what's best to get over her. don't think about how it looks like when you do this n that. it is all about you, not the signals you are sending. it shouldn't concern you whether you appear strong or not, just don't give a fuck about the resonance

brngamer · 2016-09-23T12:22:58+00:00

Turn into the leader of the group. Start initiating events and fun things to do. Become the alpha. Have everybody in the group know you regularly smash hot putang.

Or you could always...... If there are other lads in the group then share some photos of hot birds in a light hearted fun way. She will know that she will never be that good looking.

I don't recommend wasting time on scrolling insta gawking over dumb bitches, however if she is trying to piss you off then it might be worthwhile destroying her game.

I would leave the group if she's being annoying. Say 'boring, I'm out' after one of her comments or suggestions for an event and then leave.

Title	Should I leave the group?
Author	redpillplzhelp
Upvotes	6
Comments	6
Date	September 23, 2016 5:32 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/543a11/should_i_leave_the_group/
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