Should I? Shouldn't I?

Rorta · 2016-10-06T21:03:07+00:00

I can't tell you what to do but I can provide some insight.

I have a rule - I never pay for sex. Plenty of my friends do or have done but I don't. I probably never will. That's just one of my principles, if its been a principle of yours your entire life thus far then don't cross that line. If it hasn't then by all means go for it.

You've been three years without a fuck. You can do another three years. You value the pussy because it's scarce. This is the very definition of a scarcity mindset and the way to solve this problem is to develop an abundance mentality. Doing so is two fold. First you recognise that it doesn't matter if you don't fuck one girl, there are plenty of other options and opportunities out there. Secondly, you actually get off your ass and start spinning plates. Fuck a few trolls of Tinder if you feel like it, that alone will get you some degree of abundance and kill the desperation.

You talk about improving yourself. Keep on making the strides, build the discipline and invest in yourself. Then, almost by magic you will feel things start to change in your favor. At first you'll have difficulty digesting it. 'Did that chick just smile at me?', 'Holy shit she sounded like she'd fuck me'. It will be slow, but it will happen.

Willkuer_ · 2016-10-06T21:13:12+00:00

Maybe the girls you are interested in have a too high SMV? (With other words... Maybe your SMV is too low?)

I_like_rick_n_morty · 2016-10-06T22:53:18+00:00

I always feel the cost of an escort can be better invested to yourself. 300 dollars can be used to detail your car get a haircut gym membership and a few good wardrobe items. A nice coat or whatever. I hate the concept of spending money on something I can get for free.

NICOLAWRITES · 2016-10-06T23:43:05+00:00

3 years is a long time. If you do the working girl route, just do it once and use protection, make sure it's all business and don't play yourself. After you get the load off your "shoulders" then make sure you throw game on a cold approach, make sure you do it within 24 hours of your $$$ fuck, this will give you the most self-confidence that you can possibly have.

Title	Should I? Shouldn't I?
Author	ThrownRp
Upvotes	2
Comments	7
Date	October 6, 2016 8:23 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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