Been going back and forth trying to set up drinks with this tinder girl for a few weeks. The first time we set up something, I had to cancel then the next time she cancelled a few hours before.

After that I soft nexted but she reached out asking when I was free on Sunday. I texted back that night that I could do Tuesday or Thursday. Then nothing until today, when she said “Tonight! I have meetings until 7/8pm but if you don’t mind me in business clothing we can meet up for drinks!” I texted back a couple hours later “That’s fine. Meet me at [bar] at 9.”

She hasn’t texted back and I’ve been flaked on a few times now, so I’m hesitant to even show. Is it worth it to show up if she doesn’t respond?