I am a college junior and honestly not a genius/veteran when it comes to red pilling girls. I'm somewhat new to TRP, but I've been using techniques learned here more and more every day and I can slowly see myself waking up.
Last night I met a senior girl, probably the 2nd most attractive girl I've ever actually had a chance with. We were at a house party and we were flirting quite a bit but we never went beyond that. However, she invited me back to her apartment with her female friend and we hung out there for a bit, just the three of us. I thought for sure that I would get some action once her friend went to sleep, but she just gave me covers and a pillow and told me to sleep on her couch. I thought maybe that when we all "went to bed" that she would come back out or invite me to her bed, but it never happened.
I probably already fucked up my chances at that point by not pursuing her, but I personally think I made an alpha decision by deciding, fuck this, I'm not sleeping on her couch - the blue pill me would have stayed there. I walked back to my dorm room and shot her a text saying:
I'm just gonna walk back.. if you don't want to hook up that's cool but I thought that's why you invited me over
Pretty blunt, but I should have said it to her face. Anyway, she replied:
Oh sorry I didn't realize you wanted to! you didn't have to walk back alone though I just thought it would be easier/safer if you stayed
I'm not sure if she's just hamstering (it's obvious that I would have wanted to) or just inept.. I should have left it at that, but I drunkenly replied:
heh I mean my dorm wasn't that far, I'd rather sleep in my own bed if no one else's. if you wanna hang out again or hook up sometime let me know
Then I just went to bed.
Anyway, I'm wondering if I should let it go and just move on to the next one + see if she sends me a text, or if I should try again and send her one asking maybe to hang out tonight.
I think it's already a lost cause. But, you live and you learn, right?
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