The aspects of the "relationship" are already strained at best. Ok wait female here coming for advice. Ok so he and i had come into some $. He said that $250 was my cut.i said hell no more like $3000. Anyways he ends up fucking my ass against my will and when i wake up, there are 3 stacks of what i had assumed were of $100 each next to me on the bed. We both had things todo that day. I had things to take care of at home and he needed to go out of town to visit his brother in prison. Anyways i waited around for a couple of hours and talked to his famiky member told them i needed to go and i left. Had some car trouble along the way but made it. When i got home, i found that he had left his ids which he would have needed to visit his brother in my car. So i proceeded to call and text every number that i thought i could reach him at to get these to him. Much later in the day he finally answered the phone. I tell him i need him to meet me somewhere to get his id cuz my car was fucking up. Turns out that it was 3 stacks of $500 that i had taken. He tells me that i can keep $700. Something happens and hes not on the phone but i can hear him talking. I wait a few and hang up. He can call back when he arranges a ride to meet me. Anyways I finally call him back cuz of getting later and I know that he really needs to go visit his brother he is highly irrate and being a dick so i say fuck it i will just bring it since hes so pissed. I get ready to leave and call him to tell him im about to head to him. We live about an hour from each other. And he tells me not to come and he will come to me. He never shows. I don't want to lose the money or have anything happen to it so I take it to my parents house for safekeeping. I let a friend borrow 260 to getbonded out. They can pay it the following friday. He shows up 2 days later unannounced at night so i am unable to retrieve the money. So i get a check and deposit it to my account. He doesnt have one. Its a sunday too. So 2 working days. He is tripping about paying his lawyer so I PayPal 150 of the available funds to his lawyer and ga e him the 60 cash i had on me. He stays with me and the money would be available tuesday he proceed s to freak out and starts a fight with me on monday night. Has his family member come get him. He also takes my phone with him so i am unable to pay the rest of the money to his lawyer as i cant get on paypal. He then blocks my number and goes to visit his brother. I spend $ 725 i know $25 morethan i was supposed to but with the extended length of time that iv held the money... Anyways. I get $310 to him in total and had $465 left for him. He tells me to keep it. I dont have a choice really but just leave it where it is safe i have it for a few weeks and then end up going to jail and use it to bond out. He said he wasworking on getting $ together to get me out. But i only had 2 min to talk to him on the jail phone. Anyways hes being a total dick to me still and is still saying i stole from him. If i was going to steal from him i would have taken it ALL and wouldnr have woried about his id either or gave any back. But he feels other wise. Sould i just give up on him? Or continue on. I do love him and want him. And didmt mean to take as much as i did. Are we over? What would yall do? Iv never stolen from him before and dont feel that i did and have made sure he didnt gamble his lawyer money away before cuz he will. Should i give up or is there still hope?