It's kind of hard for me to work on dominance and being fun/enjoyable at the same time.

When I focus on only dominance, I have stronger eye contact, swat down tests from a dismissive "above the fray" mindset, and basically keep myself in the driver's seat. Interally I feel for powerful and self centered.

Or I can bring out my joke writing hobby to tease and banter, looking for reactions and playing off them, sometimes taking a punch and counterpunching playfully. I'm like one of two 10 year olds wrestling each other in the mud.

2 different parts of the brain being worked I guess. What would you guys prioritize working on? My sense of what is more important for building attraction isn't that good right now. I lean towards fun though