I've been soft nexting my girlfriend because I've had my sexual advance rejected 3 days in a row. When we have it, she can go full on crazy and submissive (she's a squirter) and then comments how good I fucked her. But this has been rare now, and I'm lucky to get sex twice in a week, let alone one. She's an LTR of 11 months so I'm serious about her. It's been long distance because she moved back to Scotland after the 1st month of us dating. What if she messages me 'have you been ignoring me because of sex?', how can I reply? Should I be direct with her and tell her? Because I want her to have sex on her own accord and not because I ask for more. I'm 5'10, British Latino, fit, muscular so I'm pretty attractive but I haven't nexted her before so this is new to me

Edit: This has been going on for about 1/2 months, I've tried talking it out. Nothing. Only times I get sex is when we have a little break up and then I act dominant, but sex is like once every 2 weeks. (she's a HB8, F cups, Italian with green eyes and she's completely vanilla)

2nd edit: I'm not deleting this post because some people actually have LDRS. If the two people are over 20, you can apply AWALT and dread. RP is for everyday use for men because it improves yourself. But it doesn't mean dumping a chick in a LTR just cos of a stint of no sex. Alpha means setting boundaries and not bending over for a woman, but not a 'fuck and chuck'. I've read far too many posts about having an IDGAF attitude, dumping her but others saying you should lead. Meaningful relationships work if you put effort as well as set boundaries and taking away attention and affection when they don't listen. I'm voicing my views I've used RP and it's worked except too much cos make a girl close off. People who aren't up for fuck and chucks need advice, ones that don't end up with you telling you to dump her. The amount of hate is unreal. Not every guy is born free to act how they want, some are ingrained with society's standards and therefore become beta by habit. I used RP and it's helped me get a sense, but it's not 100%. That's why I ask