I was talking to a chick I matched with in Tinder. Young, beginning college, seemingly fit as fuck. My pictures let out that I'm big, not lean. We had this conversation, AFTER a date set.

Her - You're chubby, aren't you?
Me - Of course! Aren't you? How superficial of you! lollol
Her, defensive - I didn't want to offend, I'm sorry, I'm not superficial, my ex was fat, nevermind.
Me - Relax! I made a joke!
Her - Oh. Do you know what these day's problem is? (proceeded to whine about how "fitness lifestyle" guys treated her like shit)
Me - I invited you out because of your profile music (unknown brazilian Indie band)
Her - Ok, see you at night? I'll try my best but I can't promise anything ok?
me - Oh, in this case let's leave it to another day ok?

Was there any possible save after her defensive reaction?