In my social circle we met this new girl who became a part of our circle. I think she is very attractive and I want to hook up with her badly. The thing is is that she is into my friend, which is cool so I never made a move on her but here is what confuses me: I've been lifting 6 days a week for over a year now while my friend is skinny. I am 6"1 and he is 5"10. Recently this same friend and I went to spring break together and took pics on the beach where I was showing my abs, chest and relatively low bf. What is confusing to me is that apparently this chick wanted my friend really badly once she saw the beach pics, but shouldn't I be the one she wants? What bothers me is that it's not just with this girl, but other girls that are in our group too. The girls I tend to hook up with actually want him more, but because he's shy he never makes a move on them. According to TRP I'm doing everything right: Lifting my heart out, eating properly, genetically gifted height and more direct and assertive, yet I am still the backup plan. I love my friend but I can't help but feel slightly bitter when he doesn't have to do a single thing and chicks are still pining for him, even after I hook up with them!