Spicing up an LTR with drama/tingles.

masterrod · 2014-03-27T14:47:58+00:00

Hello. So as we all know, women crave excitement, drama, and tingles. I have a pretty solid tingle-exchange going on in my LTR right now. I game good, and power through most fitness tests. But I am wondering how other LTR Red Pillers satisfy their women's demands for drama and validation without either A) running strong dread game B) making it too off balance or c) feeding her ego too much.

I think all 3 options work well. The key is balancing properly. Because you don't want her dependent on thrill to maintain the relationship. Remember women also crave passion, and anticipation.

I am only mainly concerned with chiseling away the BS feminist quirks that society gave her, and training her for wife material. She is well on her way, but still has a bit of a way to go before I qualify her for that.

It's a bit futile to train for wife material. Once married she will immediately take on the role that's she's played in her head for most of her life. This role is given to her by her parents, and society. It's a bit unpredictable, and your game and behavior will change after marriage. Now it's best just to look for red flags, and enjoy your time with her.

How do you run push/pull in an LTR??

You will push and pull with your SO forever!

HeadingRed · 2014-03-27T18:22:15+00:00

Here's what I am doing right now-

I always try to dress one notch above her when we go out casual (grocery shopping etc). Then while out I look for opportunities to get interest from other women (not too hard). It does not matter as much to age\attractiveness of the other woman- she will change on the spot. Put her arm on me, change her pose etc. Once the encounter is over there will be kissing, sexy talk etc.
She grew up pretty sheltered. Like taking her to the slightly scruffy parts of Chicago. She gets nervous but also excited.
If there is a noise outside go into hunter mode. Mute everything and insist she be quiet and still. Look for the noise. Once done get close- she will cling like a kitten.
Be irrational every so often. Decide that you will not wear a jacket even if it's cold, you are staying up to dawn, you have decided the basement walls all need to be painted green. Follow through. Show that if you want something you will do\get it- no matter what.

blondie_brownie · 2014-03-27T12:30:59+00:00

I think drama, in an LTR, means more keep things interesting. I think two of the easiest ways to do that are by not constantly telling her where you're going/what you're doing and by coming up with activities. The first one is obvious; you'll be on her mind all day. But, by the second one, I mean that you should tell her "wear comfy shoes, we're going for a ride." And then you take her hiking or whatever. I usually hate giving anecdotal evidence, but when my husband does that ("do X, we're going for a ride"), I get very excited, and it reinforces that he's calling the shots and I'm invited along to share in the adventure. I would just suggest that you do five activities you like for every one activity she likes. Hope that helps!

thecajunone · 2014-03-27T08:03:49+00:00

Dread Game.

aaron_the_just · 2014-03-27T21:24:24+00:00

I do this all the time with one plate - she used to be a gf, so it's effectively a one-sided open LTR.

Either I manufacture drama or she does. There's usually always some horrible dark issue overtop of us, so I just stick with that.

Some topics of drama I've manufactured:

"I want to turn this into a one sided non exclusive relationship"

(after getting her to open up about every sex act she did with her first bf) "I feel like you aren't really attracted to me since you don't do X thing"

"I feel like you don't like to give me head."

Works great.

Safwanish · 2014-03-27T09:22:20+00:00

What does LTR stand for?

aaron_the_just · 2014-03-27T13:37:17+00:00

Plan an exciting date/adventure.

Title	Spicing up an LTR with drama/tingles.
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Date	March 27, 2014 4:03 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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