Started dating a cool black chick because I figured she would put out and she's a virgin. I need to change that. Advice?

vandaalen · 2017-07-14T09:49:18+00:00

There are no shortcuts. Read the sidebar you lazy faggot .

Self-Making-V2 · 2017-07-14T09:54:27+00:00

" I need to be able to get into her mind and break whatever it is that makes her so determined. "

So you are actively asking for advice on how to be a parasite...?

Billee_Boyee · 2017-07-14T13:48:32+00:00

Step 1: Get a PhD

Step 2: Pull down in excess of $500K a year

Step 3: Buy a nice home, fancy car and dress in $1000 suits.

Step 4: Ask her father for permission to see his daughter socially.

Step 5: Ask her to dinner.

Step 6: Date her for three years.

Step 7: Ask her to marry you.

Step 8: Marry her

Step 9: Wonder why you are still not getting any sex.

Mobiiz · 2017-07-14T13:52:51+00:00

You think you're "dating" a girl you haven't even had sex with? Haven't even gotten a fucking bj? Lmao

falldogbombsthemoon · 2017-07-14T09:54:54+00:00

Same girl you talked about a month ago on /r/askmen?

You've got oneitis. Move on, soft next. Plenty of receptive girls instead of just this one.

nisocaniso · 2017-07-14T13:34:17+00:00

you're obsessed. read the "there's this one girl" on the side bar

quicklogaccount · 2017-07-14T14:30:01+00:00

Some folks do like to play it on hard mode, don't them?
Getting sex out of a chick who resists social urges "just because" and is intelligent as fuck. You sound like an obsessed chick. lol

She is a chick. AWALT. ALWAYS, ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT.
Run game on her. Much of the RSD game and other folks based heavily on attraction obviously won't work for you, so try the "balanced" stuff. Mystery.

Also, obviously the "nicer and better looking" than you guys she dated aren't idiots. They probably nexted her or didn't insist on her because the cost effectiveness of the relationship was low and most certainly low because of the absence of sex.
There's no miracle nor free lunch, it'll be low for you too, specially lower if sex is all you want from the chick.

Unsolicited opinion:

It strikes like a terrible waste, to seek only sex from one of the very rare chicks that seems to have more to offer these days. It's like buying the entire cake for the chocolate chip on the top of it instead of buying bags of chocolate chips.

max_peenor · 2017-07-14T17:13:10+00:00

I'm determined to get sex out of her.

There was this one girl...

Pitchfork51 · 2017-07-15T23:29:32+00:00

No girl that is a virgin and watches anime is not socially awkward.

Jsieijejeieokkd · 2017-07-14T11:20:05+00:00

She really sounds like a cool and different person. It sounds like you will need to put in some work. I would say make your intentions clear, in a playful IDGAF way, and kino, she needs to be relaxed and feel comfortable around you. Show her your SMV by being seen flirting and talking to other girls, preferably ones hotter than her. Fight oneitis.

Ignore the "sidebar trolls" who do not even bother to tell you what to read.

Love8Death · 2017-07-14T15:20:58+00:00

Classic virgin pump and dump scenario.

String her along as if you would marry her, dump her when done. Lol just don't catch oneitis and marry her.

Title	Started dating a cool black chick because I figured she would put out and she's a virgin. I need to change that. Advice?
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Date	July 14, 2017 9:21 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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