Staying sober

vandaalen · 2017-10-21T20:55:39+00:00

I don't drink and I don't give a fuck about a random bitch's opinion on it. Let aside that there is not much more annoying than drunk women. If that is a deal breaker for her, fuck her. Next.

_the_shape_ · 2017-10-21T21:45:51+00:00

Most respect my decision to abstain. I don't argue with the minority of women who try to bend my arm to drink - distancing myself is easier, less draining, and more effective.

I don't have a problem with them choosing to run themselves into the ground, but I do have a problem with them trying to get me to join in on the ~~"fun"~~ self-destruction.

ScottDurden · 2017-10-21T22:02:38+00:00

If a girl gets hung up on you not drinking she's very very low quality.

Most girls will respect you more for not drinking (I haven't drank in 2-3 years because of gym also). It's the ones who are ashamed of their drinking that will try & make you enter their frame.

br0kk85 · 2017-10-21T22:14:07+00:00

I stopped drinking alcohol completely at least ten years ago. Can't see the point of getting drunk. It gets boring quick even in company.......im at a point where I don't even like beer or other alcoholic beverages any more.

Work_In_Progress92 · 2017-10-21T23:59:54+00:00

I still like a beer or 2 every now and then when I am out with friends, but I have cut back a ton. That being said with your situation, this girl did you a favor and gave you good reason to next her.

If she can't respect your decision to be sober, move on and keep doing you.

Never get comfortable and keep at it brother.

we_have_the_best_red · 2017-10-21T22:09:01+00:00

Highly doubt the actual reason she flaked was cause you don’t drink. When your out, this is one of those things where if you let it get inside your head, then it’s a disadvantage. Most PUAs recommend not drinking. Treat it like a non issue and girls won’t care.

AlexIsWhack · 2017-10-21T22:43:12+00:00

I myself have been alcohol free over the last month or so for similar reasons OP. I still need to get out and socialize/game. Bars are the go to for me locally. I just order a tonic water, and cranberry on the rocks with a lime. It tastes good, looks like a drink, and the only person who knows that there is no booze in it is the bartender. Furthermore, it looks like you're drinking, so no one will think to give you shit for not drinking.

Title	Staying sober
Author	gorilla_bro
Upvotes	3
Comments	11
Date	October 21, 2017 8:44 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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