Still can't get it. Looking for advice

TheLongerCon · 2018-03-13T08:39:07+00:00

First of all, sorry about your dad, I can’t imagine dealing with a loss like that.

Only advice I would give you is to start working on building a career and moving out, women at your age won’t want to date a man who’s lives with his parents and isn’t established , and although you can get around that with good enough game, you should be working on it for anyways your own sake and increasing confidence.

As for a game perspective, it’s like learning a language: No one learns it quickly, some learn it quicker. It will take failures to internalize the lessons you learn here, and it will take time to pick up on the subliities.

The most important thing to know is that it’s supposed to be hard, pussy is the most desired thing among men, even more so than money and when there’s a finite supply of something and near unlimited demand, you’re going to have to work hard to get it. Be that money, women, power etc.

The best thing you could do is to find a wing that knows what he’s doing to take you out. The concepts are a lot easy to learn when witnessed in person. Keeping with the language analogy, who do think would learn Spanish quicker, someone who’s hangs around Hispanics and is immersed in the culture language, or someone who studies it out of a book?

And see a doctor about that ED, it’s probably just nerves but they can prescribe something for that, and check to make sure there isn’t an underlying problem.

h4nkz · 2018-03-13T08:56:06+00:00

I'm dealing with 2 heavy recent losses, I'm sorry for you too. The only thing that helps is time. The only thing that helps to boost your confidence is man up and try new things and most importantly allow yourself to fail! Read Woujo's post about confidence and how not to give a fuck, it was a mindchanger for me

BeeBopJoe · 2018-03-13T19:15:50+00:00

I am only going to give you advice on the sexual confidence part because I had the same crippling issue. Best way to fix it is to have CONSISTENT sex for 1-2 months, that is enough time to be comfortable with sex and to know more or less what you are doing. Find yourself a girl whos down, even if you aren't attracted to her just so you can gain some experience.

Title	Still can't get it. Looking for advice
Author	GettingShitTogether_
Upvotes	1
Comments	3
Date	March 13, 2018 8:15 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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