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she used to have one but we moved to a new city and she's having a hard time making friends etc
/r/askTRP17/01/19 11:50 PM
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true. But I actually I hope it gets less
/r/askTRP17/01/19 11:49 PM
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this is exactly what I'm scared of. Right now everything is fine, I enjoy the relationship. But what if I become sick of it one day
/r/askTRP17/01/19 11:48 PM
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we had a conversation about it and she said that she'd prefer a mff threesome but if I wanted to invite a buddy to DP her, she'd be down for it.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 12:14 PM
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Someone once told me that you gotta differ between fantasy and reality. I'd never ltr a girl who told me that she had threesomes before and liked it. But I think the amount of women who just fantasize about it is huge. Same for rape fantasies and such things. Reality is different. What do you think?
/r/askTRP21/08/18 12:52 PM
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Tldr: red flag
/r/askTRP21/08/18 12:24 PM
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I lift 5x a week since 3 years, dont worry about that. Yea i did a year ago, maybe i should do it again
/r/askTRP02/08/18 03:12 PM
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I said that I dont enjoy her Company when she's tired. She cried, calmed down and went to bed. I went for a walk. Next morning i said it's fine, now planning to not meet her after work for a while
/r/askTRP02/08/18 02:24 PM
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Yea.. internally I knew this is a bad thing since we usually always fuck but today she didn't do the effort to please me. Externally I didnt want to appear needy. Well shit I mixed both
/r/askTRP02/08/18 11:24 AM
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See my answer below
/r/askTRP28/07/18 10:13 AM
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The thing is, she usually does. She never used the Word no, she was insecure about it. We werent drunk, we only had one drink. During sex, she was the one who said "dont stop, i want more"
/r/askTRP28/07/18 10:13 AM
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I agree. One thing can make you more vulnerable for other things.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 02:58 PM
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nsuns is almost like cheating, it's so so so so efficient, honest and fun. Just stick to the f*!?@ng program and watch your body and mind grow.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 12:49 PM
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there is a saying: if you are the smartest person in the room, you are in the wrong room. Surround yourself with people who you can learn from, but also share your wisdom and be a leader
/r/askTRP28/06/18 12:38 PM
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>stoic, unmoving, strong rock and apply that to your life in all aspect sounds logical, but what does it mean in practice? It seems like I forgot how to daddy as stupid as it sounds
/r/askTRP28/06/18 09:45 AM
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Feel sorry for you. My granny passed away in january, never show weakness, even if she says she will be there and wants to help, she can't - she is not your mother. Talk to family and male friends if you need to
/r/askTRP28/06/18 09:32 AM
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so my assumption was true, you had a long dry spell and you didn't click with the first sexual partner since then. I gotta put myself more out there im just not as experienced so i lack that confidence work on this and you are good to go, once you find a girl you really enjoy sex with, you won't get enough
/r/askTRP12/06/18 01:38 PM
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physically. But without the proper mindset you won't get anything but a fleshlight
/r/askTRP12/06/18 01:30 PM
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hookers are expensive, there are plenty of girls who do it for free. If you have bad social skills and can't even maintain eye contact, that should be your priority. You are not ready for sex and losing your virginity is not the cure.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 11:58 AM
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are you on a dry spell? Go fuck some girls you find attractive and watch your desire for sex skyrocket
/r/askTRP12/06/18 11:56 AM
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Thank you for that
/r/askTRP12/06/18 05:35 AM
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Just "no" aint enough. I wanna know what you guys went through
/r/askTRP11/06/18 09:15 PM
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Well that cherry was handed by matty anon, not some pleb. Still not sure about it tho
/r/askTRP11/06/18 09:13 PM
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But you're young and resilient. You should try it now, while you're young enough to fix it all, to find out how it goes. Only by experiencing it can you know how it goes. This right there. I know from a logical point of view the idea sucks, but you have to make some mistakes in order to really learn from it. Being young, not married and not having kids gives you all the freedom you need to fix everything
/r/askTRP11/06/18 06:46 PM
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No one actually made this work and had a good expierience? Nobody has a positive feedback on living with a female? I know that bad expieriences is what brought most guys here but is just "no" all you can report?
/r/askTRP11/06/18 05:28 PM
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you answered your own question, becomng and IT technician is the best you can do
/r/askTRP11/06/18 01:49 PM
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"cus you're a good doggo.. eh gf"
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 07:39 AM
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What do you tell her when she asks what the gift is for?
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 06:26 AM
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Had the same thoughts. Just don't take things too serious, TRP is just a toolbox, take out of it what you need to get *your* job done
/r/askTRP24/05/18 07:49 AM
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Enjoyed reading this so much. Hilarious post containing precious information.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 07:36 AM
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You're right and I won't put up with that again
/r/askTRP16/05/18 07:19 AM
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you care because you want to fuck her, right? Be honest. If you did nothing wrong, don't try to make up for it
/r/askTRP16/05/18 06:22 AM
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she feels bad, therefore YOU DID SOMETHING BAD that's it. She acted shitty, I said "don't do that". She realized she made a mistake and felt shitty and tried to shift the guilt towards me. Thank god I knew what's up. In my last relationship I'd take this shit serious and freak out too
/r/askTRP16/05/18 06:20 AM
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Props to you. After the argument (or better: her argument) she called and confessed her love to me, excused herself for her behavior and that she knows she's acting crazy and wants to stop because she's afraid of losing me. She agreed to everything I said and I made clear all she said sounds nice but if her actions won't follow, I'm out
/r/askTRP16/05/18 06:18 AM
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Perfect. Thanks.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 09:30 PM
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Good tip, thanks
/r/askTRP15/05/18 10:41 AM
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it's a form of validation, so yea
/r/askTRP09/05/18 01:02 PM
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to a certain point, it improves my game. But when you are wasted, it's game over. Maybe a break is not a bad idea or at least setting a limit to 2-3 drinks
/r/askTRP09/05/18 07:04 AM
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We are exclusive. Interesting thought. She posts pictures of me and her all the time and writes love poems beneath them. I don't do this. Maybe she thinks I'm texting other girls.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 12:59 PM
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We use her phone for music and I couldn't remember her security code, that's why she originally removed the password. Few days later she proceeded to clean her whatsapp. I went through her phone once while she was asleep, I was drunk and couldn't resist. Did not find anything. Her behavior has always been perfect, she has a very submissive personality and always puts me first, I don't see any reason why she might hide something. Maybe it's just some beta orbiters texting her weird shit and she d…
/r/askTRP07/05/18 11:43 AM
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Solid advice, ty
/r/askTRP04/05/18 10:55 AM
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Almost no space except you delete the chat&media. Thanks for your answer, I like it
/r/askTRP04/05/18 10:30 AM
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Nothing new, but I enjoyed reading it. Nicely formatted and a good reminder. I did the sex thing unconcously and it works wonders. Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 06:29 AM
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She started posting booty pics. "I love fitness and want to show off my gains".
/r/askTRP03/05/18 08:40 PM
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Pussies are like fish. Good fish should not smell like fish
/r/askTRP02/05/18 02:09 PM
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awalt. If it bothers you, don't make her your LTR
/r/askTRP02/05/18 02:07 PM
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if your steak is burned at a restaurant, don't start to hate steak. It can happen anywhere. You have money (value) and there are many restaurants (options). Just enjoy it somewhere else.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 02:05 PM
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by facing your fears even if you fail and try again
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 01:45 PM
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just use a fucking condom unless she is your ltr and got tested. everything else is a risk
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 01:44 PM
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focus on big compound excercises, use a TDEE calculator and eat a surplus of 300kcal CLEAN which means no processed food. Peanut butter, nut mixes, bananas are your friend. If you don't gain weight, EAT MORE but keep it 80% clean. Lift hard. Profit.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 01:43 PM
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if you are young, think about this: no matter how many men she fucked, when you are older, pretty much every women will have fucked more
/r/askTRP02/05/18 01:41 PM
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because unless you're a fat fuck it reveals your swole forearms with popping veins
/r/askTRP02/05/18 12:13 PM
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drink beer instead of water
/r/askTRP27/04/18 06:34 AM
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Thanks bro i think this is what I need to Do as well
/r/askTRP26/04/18 03:27 PM
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what do you think about saying "if you really think my bedroom game isn't that good, go out and fuck other guys, but don't come back after you were disappointed"
/r/askTRP26/04/18 09:51 AM
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you can tell her to cut the contact with him. Remember you are the prize, I wouldn't be able to trust her. Don't give her power over you and stay alert
/r/askTRP26/04/18 09:24 AM
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it almost sounds too simple, but thinking of not giving a fuck actually feels good already
/r/askTRP26/04/18 07:40 AM
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Good post. I'd like to add that the grass is always greener for every women. I once had an LTR with a girl over 2 years who had a really stable family. Her dad and her mother are together since they are 17. Her father is successful, stoic and cares well for his family. She still ended up cheating on me at the end, which was my fault.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 06:15 AM
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it's different. Sometimes I'm fitter after 6.5h of sleep than I am after 8.5h of sleep. As you get older, you usually need less sleep. I'm 23 and 7.5h are perfect for me
/r/askTRP25/04/18 06:00 AM
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im looking for advice so no lies here. Maybe Ill ask her what her expectations about sex she had before her first time
/r/askTRP24/04/18 11:46 AM
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Good one. I expected something like "wet and clean"
/r/askTRP23/04/18 09:10 PM
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Yea but maybe she really thinks the sex we have is below average or common. We do all kind of dirty stuff, I pick her up and throw her around, I command her to do things and overall just dominate her and fuck her to her max. I tie her up and eat her out until she nearly passes out. I slap her ass, fuck her on the sink in the morning. Yeah sometimes I cum fast and sometimes I lose my erection cus she is too wet. She has 0 reference except me. What if she really thinks this is how the average man …
/r/askTRP23/04/18 09:08 PM
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My first reaction was a confused look and I said "what do you mean by that". Then I ignored it. She thought I Was angry, kept touching me and later wanted sex. With a smile on my face I said "if it doesn't go too fast for you". She then apologized and said "you know I wasnt serious when I said this." We then had sex, she came, I came and yeah. After that she kept asking if everything is ok, I said yeah sure. Thats it. Somehow it:s still stuck in my head
/r/askTRP23/04/18 08:34 PM
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Like telling her she can be lucky that her first man is not some autistic faggot who doesn't know how to fuck a girl right
/r/askTRP23/04/18 06:43 PM
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Actually it is astonishing how submissive she is, I've never had a girl reading all my wishes right from my lips before. Sometimes I still need help in situations like these. Have a sex talk with her or not?
/r/askTRP23/04/18 05:51 PM
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Exactly. She's addicted to me and i can feel it, i know she's shittesting me and i faked my confidence when she dropped the line. She didnt know i had those issues
/r/askTRP23/04/18 05:23 PM
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Dont get this answer
/r/askTRP23/04/18 05:21 PM
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I never fuck before she is completly wet and we do some 69, bj, eating out pretty much always before we fuck so this should be fine
/r/askTRP23/04/18 02:11 PM
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that mindset is worth gold. gotta get used to thinking "she gotta make me more horny" instead of "how can my dick not be hard right now?"
/r/askTRP23/04/18 02:03 PM
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that was great man haha perfect answer. Love this guy
/r/askTRP23/04/18 02:01 PM
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this. It just slightly fucks my head. She's a smokeshow and I love fucking her, I'm jacked and I dominate her completly in the bedroom since she has 0 experience and is submissive as fuck. Especially when we meet after a few days not seeing each other, I can't hold it back for more than 5 minutes after foreplay. I just wonder if I should have a conversation about or not, idk what's on her mind
/r/askTRP23/04/18 01:57 PM
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I do because it's fucking hot
/r/askTRP23/04/18 01:49 PM
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why
/r/askTRP23/04/18 01:48 PM
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yea same, if I have 0 feelings for the girl I don't even tell her to suck me off, I just blow my load during the foreplay blowjob and say "wow that was good for the first round". But if I really like her I want to vibe with her, makes sex a lot better
/r/askTRP23/04/18 12:45 PM
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Exactly what she gets atm, if it's round 3 the rough fucking lasts for up to 20 minutes. Still no idea she made that joke. "you know that I wasnt serious, but thats what people usually say to their partner, dont they?"
/r/askTRP23/04/18 12:30 PM
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that's the answer I hoped I'd get. I'm thinking about having a general conversation about sex with her since I'm her first sexual partner. Maybe she got wrong expectations (I know she watches a lot of porn). I mean, I can see that I do a good job, never had a girl scream so loud, twitch so uncontrollable and breathing so hard. But maybe she just thinks this is normal. But I don't want to appear butthurt, she usually says whatever she thinks that makes me happy and she always does what makes me h…
/r/askTRP23/04/18 11:38 AM
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it kinda is, it got a lot better but it still bothers me
/r/askTRP23/04/18 08:33 AM
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Just deadlift and forget about every neck exercise. Better focus on rear delts
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 06:42 AM
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your muscles and neural connections adapt faster than your sinews and ligaments. This is why you should always prioritize form over weight. Listen to your body, when it feels bad, it usually is. But don't be a pussy also, sometimes the answer is just "go hard and do it anyway". Warmup, stretching and mobility is also very important
/r/askTRP19/04/18 06:44 AM
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Just enjoy it while it lasts and keep doing what you are doing. Also every LTR will eventually change after about 1 year when the honeymoon phase ends
/r/askTRP19/04/18 06:37 AM
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not sure if I'm an orbiter, I'm fucking this girl for a few months now
/r/askTRP18/04/18 11:36 AM
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texted her "I want you. today" and she said "ok, I text you when I'm free". My response was "nvm see you another time" since I hate unmotivational shit. Now she's spamming me and wants to come over. Wtf
/r/askTRP18/04/18 11:28 AM
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Better try getting them naked in your bedroom instead of on your phone
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 12:38 PM
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but that's how I like my vagina the most
/r/askTRP17/04/18 08:11 AM
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it's prettty common, we are open and sexual pretty much all the time
/r/askTRP17/04/18 06:47 AM
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eat more, lift harder. Try nsuns
/r/askTRP13/04/18 08:07 AM
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Exactly what I needed to read right now. Thanks a lot
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 06:48 AM
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How hard is to to google 5x5 and read the information you get? Don't act childish
/r/askTRP10/04/18 08:00 PM
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what do you mean by that?
/r/askTRP10/04/18 07:49 PM
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Good idea. Maybe i just need some time off. We saw each other a lot lately
/r/askTRP06/04/18 09:39 PM
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It's not always like that i mean she is so sweet and submissive and does everything i want, writes me love letters and is a hb8 and all that stuff. I usually enjoy her Company but days like today grind my gears
/r/askTRP06/04/18 09:37 PM
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Start tracking your macros and kcal. Calculate your maintenence. Go 200-300 kcal higher if you want to gain weight.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 08:48 AM
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It's a shit test, she just wants it because she can't get it
/r/askTRP20/03/18 07:29 AM
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18kg? definetly bulk first
/r/askTRP19/03/18 02:58 PM
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had a classmate who did this at the age of 16 and everyone thought it was weird. But this guy was really weird, like the lego building didn't enforce this
/r/askTRP16/03/18 07:33 AM
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The other comments are right, go for whatever you want. If you need external validation, usually it is "enough" when people start complimenting you on your gains
/r/askTRP15/03/18 08:12 PM
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True story bro
/r/askTRP15/03/18 07:36 PM
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ahh shit.. it was Robert Glover I think. Read carnegies books anyway
/r/askTRP15/03/18 03:22 PM
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read and internalize "no more mr nice guy" by dale carnegie, maybe 2 or 3 times
/r/askTRP15/03/18 01:42 PM
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go to the gym
/r/askTRP14/03/18 02:27 PM
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Thats Why you should Text for logistics only
/r/askTRP14/03/18 08:31 AM
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Stop being so available
/r/askTRP14/03/18 08:02 AM
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Appreciate your post, thanks!
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 07:35 AM
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Maybe it had something to Do with her past, she moved many times and had to learn how to make friends fast
/r/askTRP13/03/18 07:27 PM
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She behaves differently as soon as other people are around, no matter what gender
/r/askTRP13/03/18 07:23 PM
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join some clubs, they meet during weekdays and there are always women
/r/askTRP13/03/18 03:13 PM
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Usually this is a sign that you seek approval because you lack confidence. Figure out why you want these girls and what exactly you want from them.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 03:08 PM
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Humans always want what they cannot get. I bet if they show signs of desinterest, you'd suddenly want them
/r/askTRP13/03/18 02:59 PM
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Nothing? No calling her out on her bullshit no correction of her behavior?
/r/askTRP13/03/18 02:06 PM
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Like is there stuff I can do that makes it seem like I’m having time of my life yea, by actually having the time of your life
/r/askTRP13/03/18 12:44 PM
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agree and amplify, respond with a silly nickname or something.. "for you, it's still Mr. Xyz"
/r/askTRP13/03/18 12:42 PM
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Why not? Focus on your fun and have a good night, practice some body language reading and conversation skill.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 12:41 PM
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Only if it is a guy that other women want too
/r/askTRP13/03/18 10:55 AM
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Just take revange and show her boss your balls and make him grab them
/r/askTRP13/03/18 10:54 AM
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depends on you and how you make her feel. Younger girls are often less experienced and more afraid to be judged
/r/askTRP13/03/18 10:42 AM
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r/fitness, r/nsuns and the sidebar. Read & apply
/r/askTRP13/03/18 09:43 AM
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nervous is the wrong term, english is not my first language. I think the right term is excited? Idk, she's not at ease, but in a very positive way.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 09:42 AM
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snapchat streaks are worth nothing, stop wasting time and go on a healthy eating streak, lifting streak, playing an instrument streak, talk to random people streak or something
/r/askTRP13/03/18 09:40 AM
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trying to take her home I hope you did not tell her you wanna fuck her at your house or something. Instead use some excuse like "wanna play some mario kart at my place" or "wanna see my dildo collection"
/r/askTRP13/03/18 09:39 AM
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accept yourself and don't fight it. Who's going to suck your dick, your friends or the girls? You were fine until now and you will be in the future
/r/askTRP13/03/18 09:36 AM
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Althrough all my exes said its big.wtf? so what, most bitches can't even handle big dicks. Mine is slightly above average and I was told "it is perfect", "if it was bigger, it would hurt". Stop overthinking. Also there are so many ways to pleasure a girl. What actually matters to girls is having a rock hard erection.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 09:32 AM
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Babysteps brother. Basic stuff first. Learn how to socialize. Smile at and talk to people. You'd be surprised how positive they respond if you act natural and friendly. Join a club or something. Talk to the girls there. If you see IOI's just ask them out.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 09:12 AM
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Trust but verify. If the jelousy eats you up, check her phone. If you find a no-go like sexting, drop her. Recover and be happy.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 09:09 AM
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enough to begin with and get your body used to the stress. If you want to do serious lifting, you will need a bench press and a squat rack. If you have space at home, you are good to go
/r/askTRP13/03/18 09:07 AM
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this. maybe if you don't play any instrument, get a guitar for 100 bucks and a beginner book.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 09:05 AM
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You are at the very beginning and you are going to gain so much muscle in the upcoming months. Don't bother it, calories are your friend
/r/askTRP13/03/18 09:04 AM
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before you take a photo and upload it to sc or instagram, ask yourself "would I enjoy looking at this?" if the answer is yes, just post it and don't stress over it. I do it randomly, sometimes 3 times a day, sometimes 0 the whole week
/r/askTRP13/03/18 09:03 AM
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I did this for a while, it makes sex less exciting and my boner less hard. Just blow your load during sex and don't stop. Go for round 2 and 3 and 4
/r/askTRP13/03/18 09:01 AM
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Sounds like girls are your one and only goal. Living with your parents should not be a problem if you have your own separated room that isn't right next to your parents dorm. Living alone tho is an important experience. You are forced to take care of everything yourself and therefore you don't need anyone which is attractive. Use dates to improve your game and how you talk and act around girls. Be outcome independent. If she wants to sleep with you, she won't make it hard for you
/r/askTRP13/03/18 08:58 AM
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I'm dealing with 2 heavy recent losses, I'm sorry for you too. The only thing that helps is time. The only thing that helps to boost your confidence is man up and try new things and most importantly allow yourself to fail! Read Woujo's post about confidence and how not to give a fuck, it was a mindchanger for me
/r/askTRP13/03/18 08:56 AM
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I plated a 9/10 just by occasionally sending her snaps that are not related to her but nice to look at. No selfies or nudes. Random dog pictures or funny things. If she responds well, just randomly ask if she wants to hang out. Whats the worst that could happen? Rejection. And rejection is also something you want.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 08:53 AM
1

she's nervous 24/7, especially when I'm around. It could be that you’re looking really hard for signs of hypergamy now that you know about it and stumbled upon TRP this just hit me, I tend to overthink and overanalyze quite fast. Calms me down tho, thanks bro
/r/askTRP13/03/18 08:40 AM
2

exactly what I've been telling myself and the reason why gave no fucks and enjoyed myself
/r/askTRP13/03/18 08:38 AM
1

Because you are low value, unattractive and obviously unfriendly.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 07:42 AM
14

Understanding the feminine perspective can be useful my friend
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 02:49 PM
5

These are female friends of mine I'm not interested in
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 01:12 PM
25

What I intend to say is: they lie and their "I have a boyfriend" excuse is bullshit. I usually make fun of her and tell him to go for it
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 10:52 AM
1

The problem is that you only focus on her and take it personal if she picks another dude who maybe just made the right moves at the right time.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 10:28 AM
1

If you're hungry and see a tree full of apples, which one do you pick?
/r/askTRP09/03/18 10:25 AM
2

A guy like me should have 3 plates hb7-9 minimum well if you were a guy like that, you'd be spinning those plates. my inner still sucks there you go. Looks aren't everything guys Work on your mindset, approach, be outcome independent and focus on having fun, don't make bitches your top priority. Improve yourself
/r/askTRP09/03/18 10:23 AM
1

Neediness
/r/askTRP09/03/18 10:21 AM
3

Your face is not the problem, it will boost your chance of getting laid by -20%. Come back after 2 years of lifting, 4-5 days per week and a clean bulk. Also asking such question implies your immature mindset. Stop giving so many fucks. Even 6/10 guys can get 9/10 girls easily
/r/askTRP09/03/18 10:20 AM
34

I can't count how many times I got pulled over by female friends in clubs so they could tell the dude that was talking to her "that's my boyfriend". The dudes usually were creepy and clingy as fuck
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 10:12 AM
3

Game other girls, if the issue stays, it's a bigger problem
/r/askTRP08/03/18 07:45 AM
1

Usually one sleepover and one meetup per week
/r/askTRP07/03/18 09:47 PM
3

You are too invested in her. I'd say act like you already fucked her, but you already did so man up and stop overthinking! Imagine life is a story, what do you want to happen? Only you can write your story
/r/askTRP07/03/18 09:43 PM
2

Perfect, thanks!
/r/askTRP07/03/18 08:09 PM
1

I see. Sometimes I have a hard time differentiating between setting up rules and being too jelous or prohibiting. I'll keep things easy and just tell her what I expect.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 07:55 PM
1

If she's not soaking wet for a good time, she's not that into it. If she is wet and the session is very long, use lube.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 07:46 PM
4

I expieriences this twice and both were cheating on me towards the end of the relationship. What a fool I was
/r/askTRP07/03/18 07:38 PM
1

Isn't that an obvious one?
/r/askTRP07/03/18 07:31 PM
2

On the one hand, I want her to look sexy for me. On the other hand, I wanna enjoy the night without drunk dudes constantly hitting on her because I'm not going be around her all the time since some friends will be there too. I think I'm gonna tell her to dress as hot as possible, enjoy the night and watch her actions. If she can't show loyalty or doesn't turn other guys down isntantly, I'm out anyways.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 07:27 PM
1

Good question. Last time a girl was on her phone on the bed next to me I thought about calling her out on it. Instead I just went on my phone and started texting some friends, after 1 minute she put hers away and stared at me. I put mine away. Next thing I remember is her blowing my dick
/r/askTRP06/03/18 10:09 PM
1

A little controverse
/r/askTRP05/03/18 06:56 PM
1

I'd like to try it, but it's so fucking expensive, isn't it?
/r/askTRP05/03/18 10:34 AM
1

thanks for your answer. I'm not freaking out, just wanted to share my thoughts. I didn't lose my shit completly, but it was a friendly reminder how fast it can happen to get dragged into some shit
/r/askTRP27/02/18 11:55 AM
1

damn and I thought it's the end.. life can be so simple
/r/askTRP27/02/18 09:02 AM
2

Yea but you have to set them up, don't you? Because everyone's boundaries are different.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 10:03 AM
6

It's incredible how powerful the withdrawal of attention is. Just stop texting her and wait. It will seem like she doesn't care or is busy either, but her mind is going insane, wondering what you might be doing and if you still like her
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 10:21 AM
1

Yes sir
/r/askTRP22/02/18 01:56 PM
1

that statement wasn't targeted at the "ltr" thing. I call it LTR whenever I stop fucking other girls
/r/askTRP22/02/18 01:38 PM
1

your mom don't you talk about my mom! Jokes aside, thanks for your answer. And here's a little secret: I'm not a native speaker ;)
/r/askTRP22/02/18 01:31 PM
8

Been asking myself at what stage I might be and - boom - the perfect post appears. Discovered TRP a year ago, now looking forward to hit stage IV. Solid post.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 01:27 PM
0

So your title should have stated "LTnotreallyaR" and not LTR no, because I asked what you would do. Sorry for my bad grammar, I appreciate any corrections
/r/askTRP21/02/18 12:34 PM
2

we never really were in a relationship since I knew this would happen from the beginning. She was just not aware. I'm not sure if I should break contact or not though.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 10:53 AM
1

it's my 3rd relationship (1st was 6 months, 2nd was 2 years, this one is now 5 months spun about 3 plates I'd consider my experience intermediate
/r/askTRP21/02/18 08:37 AM
2

My girlfriend of 5 months next her. you managed to get her and you will get another. there is plenty of fish in the sea and it's not hard to get over her since you don't know each other for a long time. consider yourself lucky that you got no kids etc. move on
/r/askTRP20/02/18 12:12 PM
2

Is there a difference between withdrawing attention and ignoring her?
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 07:33 AM
1

Dale Carnegie mentioned this in his book "how to win friends and influence people". Never use the word but if you want a person to believe in your whole sentence. Instead use and. For example: Your grades are good, but they could be better. First part of your sentence is destroyed. Instead say this: Your grades are good and I think you can do even better! Huge psychological impact
/r/TheRedPill15/02/18 08:06 AM
10

Those who are in an LTR: what do you do today?
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 01:50 PM
1

Would you recommend bachelor pad economics to men from other countries than the US too? I'm from germany and our system works a little different, but I'm very interested in reading it. Not sure if it's worth the 20€ though
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 07:53 AM
1

I understood what Mark Manson means by making yourself "vulerable" but that post on how she's not on your side was a good reminder. Sometimes I tend to forget about the harsh lessons and become weak for a moment, it seems so much easier to just let yourself fall and do it the way it feels good in this moment. Anyway, thanks for your answer, I appreciate
/r/askTRP08/02/18 03:20 PM
2

thanks for your words, this sounds reasonable
/r/askTRP25/01/18 02:50 PM
2

I love this book, you learn so much about basic human interaction from it. I would not apply the techniques on every human, but the ones you need to influence, eg. at work. It's also useful if you are not that good at basic communication or chatting.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 08:19 AM
8

based on my experience, the first 3-4 months are the best. When the 1 year mark is passed, shit starts going downhill
/r/askTRP11/01/18 08:36 AM
1

don't do shit like crossfit for the purpose of chasing girls. You should be doing what you enjoy, the rest comes easy.. if it involves going out and doing creative/productive/inspiring shit of course
/r/askTRP11/01/18 07:57 AM
3

2 years for me but I should've ended it after 1.5 years
/r/askTRP11/01/18 07:52 AM
3

what would be the point in telling her?
/r/askTRP11/01/18 07:51 AM
2

got one thing to add for the sleep problem: check up on sleep hypnosis on youtube.. did that when my thoughts were going crazy after my last breakup. I never listened to it for more than 10 minutes before I fell asleep
/r/askTRP11/01/18 07:49 AM
0

Handle it like this: if you are in the emotional state to comfort her, do it. If her crying exhausts you or you are stressed from your own shit, tell her you are too tired to listen to her problems today. Just do what you feel like.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 01:59 PM
1

Let me try to say it differently: How do you make her responsive/attracted to you without emotionally investing more than she does or appearing needy?
/r/askTRP21/12/17 01:54 PM
7

It appears a little autistic to only look girls in the eyes except when having oneitis. I'm talking about a flirty conversation when there is silence for a while and you just look into her eyes
/r/askTRP18/12/17 09:39 AM
7

Maybe I should've added that I'm talking about girls who already know you and are with you. Not some random stranger
/r/askTRP18/12/17 08:12 AM
1

I got the point, thanks
/r/askTRP08/12/17 02:12 PM
1

Why are you in a social setting with her Because her company makes some activities more fun
/r/askTRP08/12/17 01:32 PM
1

She's trying this to GET a serious relationship she definetly is Does she qualify? Or not? Or not sure yet? I'm not sure yet. The ways to imply this are "maybe..." and "I'm not sure about you yet..." and "maybe someday" So telling her this is the way to go in your opinion?
/r/askTRP08/12/17 01:23 PM
2

this might be true.. I'd consider her a possible LTR but she hasn't comitted enough yet. She also starts inviting me to family stuff and shit
/r/askTRP08/12/17 09:50 AM
10

Everyone can bulk Bullshit. Clean bulking is not easy. I find it way harder to get 3,5k kcal / day in with healthy food. It takes a lot of planning and you have to eat even if you are not hungry. While cutting, just fast for 16hrs/day, keep your protein high and eat a lot of vegetables
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 09:01 AM
2

In other words, this boss was saying - "Eat shit. You are my slaves." with his actions. This is bullshit. You should read "how to win friends and influence people" in order to understand the psychology behind this
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 10:33 AM
4

holy shit my biggest respect on this one. I respect people who can do this. I rarely go out with friends and don't drink. As soon as I drink I usually can't stop
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 08:41 PM
2

This is really interesting and helpful at the same time. I'm currently dating an HB 9 and I wish she would commit and persue more. Meeting her twice a week atm, maybe I should just withdraw any attention for a while?
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 05:54 PM
2

I can Post Some. Pics and my Routine if someone is interested
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 11:26 AM
1

good job on getting the habit of meditating. Do you experience any effects of it?
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 07:01 PM
2

gaming consumes so much time you could use for productive stuff.. even if it's just sitting on the couch and thinking about new stuff you could do or rewind your day
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 06:59 PM
2

k maybe I exaggerated a little bit. I went from 60kg bodyweight to 77kg bodyweight and stood lean during the whole time. 100% natural. I got literally addicted to weightlifting & proper nutrition
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 06:56 PM
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gained 20kg lean muscle mass since the last 2 years, about 10% bf got up at 5am in order to go to the gym before work and have more time after work practiced playing guitar at least 30min / day benched 90kg for 3 clean reps this week I'm dating a 9/10 girl I had an eye on for a long time quit any kind of smoking 2 months ago finished 2 books recently which helped me improve myself quit porn 3 months ago reduced gaming to about 3hrs/week I'm in the process of learning to put myself first and enjo…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 02:42 PM
1

another guy taking everything literally. Think in context please.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 08:09 AM
3

A. Not all women are that slutty. All women can be And B. Who'd want to fuck someone like that anyway? Someone who doesn't know
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 07:34 AM
2

You are like the 3rd guy saying that you know it. Did this become viral?! No their names anrent melissa and lisa
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 08:44 PM
2

Dont take this so literally dude, if she says no playfully you should play with her and try again, without violence. It's all about fun for both. Vibing together is a premise and i did not mean to imply any kind of rape or violence. Thought this was self explanatory
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 06:25 PM
19

So "Sperm Wars" is a book about women craving different men's juice between their legs at the same time?
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 03:10 PM
95

That's what I call work efficiency
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 01:26 PM
26

well.. I guess you can't. Sometimes it's not only your turn
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 11:04 AM
1

Instead of talking all the time, ask proper questions and let others do the talking. Just ask questions
/r/askTRP21/11/17 09:06 AM
1

Eat healthy, lift heavy and stay away from drugs. You should be fine
/r/askTRP21/11/17 09:00 AM
45

but not all are cunts. Maybe, but they all can be cunts
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 08:53 AM
0

I see.. now I know how to keep it
/r/askTRP16/11/17 11:01 AM
2

LOL what age are you
/r/askTRP16/11/17 09:01 AM
1

go to r/fitness and post a form check video
/r/askTRP16/11/17 08:59 AM
9

so you eat like 1kg of meat daily and add 2 protein shakes? what the fuck..
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 09:29 AM
3

depends on the workout plan
/r/askTRP24/10/17 07:17 AM
2

I already set 2 dates. They went good. Is it again my turn to ask for the 3rd? I want her to chase/work for me
/r/askTRP24/10/17 07:16 AM
1

A tinder girl of mine told me, girls you just met get disattached if you don't contact or see them for more than a week or two
/r/askTRP24/10/17 06:37 AM
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