Here's the problem: I use POF often. I used to be beta for most for my life, but the last few months I've read alot on TRP and Seddit, and it's definitely opened my eyes.

Basically, using what I know from this and TRP, I am able to get numbers off POF fairly easily. My problem is going on dates with them...

It doesn't seem to matter what I do, every girl I talk to still ends up flaking on me last second. I've done everything I can think of: playful flirting/teasing, not texting too much (I don't even text them every day), telling them where we should go for a date (i.e. "let's meet up at *** on *** at 7pm!"). When they flake once, I've used the line I saw on TRP "Sure NP. I'll text you later in the week". When I ask them out again, they flake AGAIN at the last second, in which case I cut all contact with them. Mind you, within the last few weeks, I've gotten probably 10-12 numbers. I haven't been able to get a "yes" for a date with all of them, but the ones I have gotten a yes (around 5 so far), ALL of them have flaked, two of them twice. I just don't understand what I'm still doing wrong, or if it's just bad luck! Any advice?

BTW, yes I have asked this question over at askseddit. Wasn't sure how to ask here until after I posted my question there.