Last week me and group of friends almost got into a fight. When the situation ended we talked about what happened and I realised that none of them consider me “fight worthy”. (“Yeah, you were just standing there, you wouldnt do shit if the situation escalated”) I’m not saying that I supprot violence but it just bothers me that they see me as a pussy, when in reality I consider myself the first one to jump into a fight for a friend (I also have a lot of experience in boxing and strong physique built from lifting).

So my question is : why do people see me as a pussy when in my head if consider myself as a opposite.
How can I make people see me as a type of person I consider myself to be ? It doesnt have to be strictly connected to this scenario. How to make people see you as want to.