Hey all, I am a 27 year old American-Indian guy who is 6'3 185lbs. My whole life, I have been weirdly skinny and lanky and struggled with that. In college, I gained some good weight and started gaining confidence and doing decent with women. Never had a real girlfriend still, but was banging some chicks

However, I am now 27 and noticed my hair has started thinning. I am still weirdly lanky, and I went to a friend's wedding this weekend. I noticed first that I look horrible in a suit. It was custom fitted but still I looked so bad in it. Skinny like a pole, a unathletic Kevin Durant. This really ruined my weekend and made me depressed.

Something else I have noticed is that people don't really ask me who I am dating or see me as a guy that gets girls. My friends dont ask me about chicks or family friends. It really takes a toll on me mentally because it makes me think everyone thinks I am ugly. I notice people are kind of uncomfortable when talking to me. Maybe it is because I am low energy because of my depression? I am not really sure.

What can I do to get my confidence back? I am lifting and eating like crazy