Just got out of a bad relationship, I'm a pretty lonely person who needs a lot of validation. I'm studying exercise science and I'm pretty bulky. I'm 26, and I feel kind of lost, when I go on okcupid I just see attention whores everywhere. I met my ex online and she was constantly chatting to dudes, knowing they wanted to fuck her. So what do I do? I probably don't have the guts to do anything in the real world. I just feel a bit lost really.