This actually happens to be a habit of mine.

I've meet this girl who's serving at a cafe (Second Cup) and She has the physical qualities I really want (cute face, slim waist and big ass). I had a conversation with her and I have the hots for her. I learned she works there full time and I hadn't bothered asking for her number/asked her out.

Now, unfortunately, she's a part of my thoughts. Don't know what to do about that. I have this stupid habit of doing that with women to whom I'm attracted. I'm not spinning many plates or the like.

Beating mental Oneitis. Any advice?