Is there a zone in between the two, where you want to be?

On one hand you have the alpha fucks, who is a chad: good looking, low in neuroticism, does not care what others think and always has the power to walk away. On the other hand there is the guy who has a high paying job, he is reliable and can bear more responsibility, he comes home late from work and wants a loving wife to comfort him. (just the sterotypes)

I don't understand, where the line is. I see all this selfimprovement and finance talk on trp and all the money-is-the-key-to-be-chad-talk, but doesn't that predispose you as beta bucks/ plow horse/ treadmillhamster?

When a woman sees you working 60-80 hrs a week, she will seal her pussy and use sex as trading stock for commitment. I am not trying to hamster away my lazyiness, but I think I would much more enjoy teaching maths and physics to kids in school 40hrs a week, and then have more time for hiking, mountainbiking, gym, playing guitar and painting. (The thing is, that you can't make a living of those these days, otherwise I would probably paint 60-80 hours a week) Do you think I am a looser for having so many hobbys, that don't pay? I mean because sure: money is the equivalent to nearly every other resource and therefore, working only 40hrs a week could be considered as a waste of time and potential, because maybe you can't buy a big mercedes, or 200 dollar haircuts, or go to the coolest hotels on Hawaii.

What do I want from you? Give me your thoughts on the money vs. free time thing regarding the effect on women: Is there a threshold, where money doesn't boost your SMV and only consumes your time and attracts only more gold diggers? Is SMV a global phenomenon, or are there different SMVs for different sexual markets (for example like that: if you are rich your SMV is higher for women who want to settle down with you (I see the getting boring and cheated on problem here). If you are a muscular chad, who only does what he wants in his free time, your SMV is higher for sluts who want validational sex vs opportunistic sex in exchange for commitment (problem here maybe "the quality of women" is lower) )?