I'll try keep it brief 18 yo guy, good career (engineering apprenticeship) good wages, car, not living with parents 8/10 looks 10/10 personality good hobby (MMA) alot of life experience and facial hair so most people think I'm mid 20s (currently traveling Thailand alone) great dancer, great style, slim muscular body (don't wanna get big cause fighting weight classes etc) alot of attention from girls BUT idk what to do with it.. huge fear of cold approaches warm is ok but then im scared to escalate, if I escalate I'm scared to go in for a kiss etc etc. I've only used game to sleep with 2 girls and it worked awesome. But I was also sleeping with a fatty who was obsessed with me at the time and came to me. I have alot of potential guys maybe you can tell me what you think are my problems so I can take steps to fix them?

I have ADHD and used to be dependent on drugs (mainly weed) I'm getting into meditation now lmk if you need additional info