She's a FWB. Since I'm currently out of town, we occasionally text a bit. For context, sometimes I copy her homework when I forget to do it myself. The following conversation ensured:

Her: "I might stop letting you do that... Or would that get me in trouble? ;)"

Me: "You know I'll have to punish you in that case. But is it even a punishment when you enjoy it?"

Her: "Make me not enjoy it anymore then ;)"

That sounds kinda rapey, no? Forcing her to not enjoy things anymore? Why would she want that? Is she damaged? Or into extreme shit like CNC? (in addition, I already found out she likes pain and getting overpowered - I once asked her about her deepest darkest fantasy, and even after pushing multiple times just got a "I could never say that out loud" or some shit like that). I'm fine with rough sex, but I don't think I'd really enjoy playing Bill Cosby for her.

Also, what do I reply here?