How exactly to proceed with texting a plate when she's also "playing the game"? I did my best to keep texts at a minimum and for logistics only. Do I undermine my "status" with her with prolonged periods of no texting, and no initiation? My view is that initiating first in these situations is losing frame. Am I right thinking so? Let me know your opinions on the dreaded texting on which so many thots are dependant these days.