Alright here's the breakdown.

First date basketball game went well. Go to a bar after the game, giggle, talk, and after got the kiss. Parted ways because it was a Thursday, and we both had work in the early morning plus a bit of logistical issues. By the time we left the bar it was just after 1.

Second "kind of date". Went out with friends Saturday got a little hammered, pressured her with snap stories, get a response telling her she should come out with us. She doesn't but then I end up meeting her for some late night food. More talk and some drinks, then go back to her place. Ended up staying the night but only making out.

Now here's the flake. Ask her what's up this Tuesday afternoon saying what's your weekend looking like. She says she'll be "laying low" more. I offered a more relaxed afternoon near my place without drinking with a fun idea. I offered this relaxed afternoon on a Saturday. She responds hours later saying she had made some plans with family and friends. She goes ahead and says not only Saturday, but also Sunday she's busy.

I'm fairly new to the pill. My text game seems alright, but I got feeling maybe a tad bit needy though I can't be too sure on it. Don't have plates, so there's the ever looming oneitis hovering over my head.

Do I give her the "..."? Is this a sign of cutting it off? What would be my next move on this?

Been trying to clean myself up with the necessities everyone talks about in this sub. My only downfall I'd say is cleaning up my place. Was hoping for a different response to have motivation to do that, but well here I am.

Thanks for reading if you got this far.