In the last 3 months I must have been asked that question 20 times by different girls. Usually on dates but even from girls who are friends of friends at parties and gatherings now.

My typical response is something like "isn't it obvious? ...its my horrible personality"

recently ive also said "oh an of course my fetishes prob don't help either" or something to that effect. It immediatly puts sex on the a table and nearly every girl is submissive sexually to one degree or another

2 questions 1. Any better responses to this question 2. Should i take this question as a good sign or bad. Initially i figured on dates its a reasonable question but at random events im a bit thrown off by it.