Thinking about going monk mode for the next 3-4 years. Thoughts?

vandaalen · 2018-09-21T20:37:42+00:00

Monk mode is not a strawman to justify staying in your comfort zone.

Son_of_Gatsby · 2018-09-21T20:28:51+00:00

You're definitely on a good path doing all those things, but where are you at right now, that you need 3-4 years to correct it to a point, where you can approach women in general?

3-4 years seems way too long. You don't need to be Hugh Jackman to talk to women

ChadFromColumbus · 2018-09-21T20:45:10+00:00

I honestly went monk mode like completely celibate for like 3 years just lifting and studying probably one of the best decisions I've made.

Eventually your SMV will get high enough and you can take it easy and game some girls.

_thechinaman_ · 2018-09-21T20:26:46+00:00

There is no good or bad but thinking makes it so. In other words, is that what YOU want to do? It has to be what YOU want to do. There is nothing right or wrong about the decision but you should do it because YOU want to for YOURSELF.

Flintblood · 2018-09-21T21:48:37+00:00

I would go for a shorter amount of time if I were you. Maybe try going Monkmode for six months to a year, and then venture out and see how things go.

Ricklogical · 2018-09-21T23:53:47+00:00

Usually you can see the change by the way people treat you. I would suggest working on yourself until you start to feel this way, or you can do most of monk mode, but approach women anyways, because it isn't about the way you look, how much money you have, its your ability to hold a conversation, to handle the different tests they throw at you, and the only thing that helps with getting women in the long run.

You can be as hunky and rich as any other Chad, but without game you are just a pretty fucking social autist.

OfficerWade · 2018-09-22T01:16:17+00:00

Don’t deliberately call out a monk mode. That defeats the purpose, don’t leave your job, don’t leave your family. Be normal. Do what normal people do just do it with another purpose.

johnpayne10 · 2018-09-22T05:22:20+00:00

Going monk mode is a good idea. Even not approaching girls, staying out of the sexual marketplace is a good idea. But not for 3-4 years. Maximum for 3-4 months.

btrpb · 2018-09-22T12:58:57+00:00

Fuck this monk mode shit. Don't make women your priority, make your mission your priority. Your fitness, career, hobbies. Improvements are incremental and slow. But who knows, you might get laid along your journey? So no point switching off women for four years.

Title	Thinking about going monk mode for the next 3-4 years. Thoughts?
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Date	September 21, 2018 8:14 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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