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Don't mind the typical askTRP responses. You probably look better and are more jacked than any of the people telling you to lift here. Most people here don't read the posts and just spout the same bullshit on every post. I saw your post and looks are definitely not your problem, maybe a different haircut, but that's about it. Just know that with your looks you could probably get with any women. Now it just comes down to game. Game in a club is a controversial topic, there doesn't seem to be a re…
/r/askTRP14/04/19 05:01 PM
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What triggered her comment? This is crucial for the answer
/r/askTRP11/04/19 08:06 PM
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Why do you care if she's just a plate? sounds perfect if she already got somebody else who's paying her
/r/askTRP11/04/19 07:53 PM
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Tell her your exact age: Year, month and day. Bring your birth certificate on the date. The last thing you wanna do is be exposed as the big, fat liar you are
/r/askTRP11/04/19 07:51 PM
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I met a 9/10 HB 20 y/o girl w a speech impediment, cross eyed let me guess, she's a virgin and cooks and cleans for you? Anyway, no need to find a mute person, just follow the Iron Rule of Tomassi #4 NEVER under any circumstance live with a woman you aren’t married to or are not planning to marry in within 6 months.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 08:45 PM
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Hell no, "Yeah, I'm actually only 11. My fifth grade buddies and I are super excited to try our first beer." sounds awkward as fuck. Way too overengineered, too "Thanks, I'm blessed to have great genes." Is actually really funny and something you can come up with on the spot, the thing about all of these A&As is just to get the tone right. How you say these things is way more important than what you say
/r/askTRP31/03/19 06:50 PM
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we need a "best titles of 2019" thread, I'd suggest this one as the first entry
/r/askTRP29/03/19 08:49 PM
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Her attraction for you is inversely proportional to the time she "waits" before putting out, i.e. Chad will be fucking her on the first date, maybe even shortly after the approach. AWALT
/r/askTRP29/03/19 08:47 PM
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women should absolutely never be your top priority
/r/askTRP28/03/19 01:33 PM
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Very shitty situation, but it seems like you already know what went wrong and what you need to do. It does sound like this outcome was very inevitable though, so next time you might want to jump ship sooner, rather than watching it sink with you on it. You're in college and you should always have options ready, even in an LTR. Girls always keep these options ready by default
/r/askTRP27/03/19 01:22 PM
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Really appreciate the input. I'm gonna give it a try
/r/askTRP24/03/19 09:08 PM
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It's actually way less drug use than I suspected, a lot of girls are not on MDMA in those clubs. And I'm not sure I agree with such a passive approach. Hot girls ( HB8+ ) don't approach, even if the men is high SMV. They certainly won't start dancing with you unless you make a move I appreciate the input though, maybe I should consider a different club
/r/askTRP24/03/19 08:52 PM
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SMV is very good; what do you mean by jumping in? Because that's the crucial part. like bumping into them? dancing in front of them? I feel like if you're not doing some grand gesture they simply won't notice or just smile and keep dancing like before
/r/askTRP24/03/19 08:48 PM
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You should really contribute more on this sub, quality replies right here
/r/askTRP16/03/19 07:36 PM
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It's a shit test. If you bow to a direct command, especially in order to earn favors like a bitch, they know where you stand in the dominance hierarchy
/r/askTRP16/03/19 05:32 PM
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exactly, classic hamstering similar to the people who claim to be MGTOW, but in reality they just can't get with any women
/r/askTRP16/03/19 04:58 PM
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Might be so, still not worth it
/r/askTRP14/03/19 01:31 PM
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If the logistics are good, especially if it’s a trip abroad and nobody will ever know, and your SMV is high enough she WILL put out. Literally all women are like that, it’s one of the core beliefs of TRP. There are no unicorns, no girls that will “save themselves” for the right guy.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 04:36 AM
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Maybe you’ll find your girl in one of those amish communities
/r/askTRP05/03/19 08:05 PM
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It’s 38.478%, but goes up to 41.878% on a full moon
/r/askTRP28/02/19 01:26 PM
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It's 37.44 percent
/r/askTRP20/02/19 09:38 PM
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Why do you care what others do? Just do your own thing
/r/askTRP18/02/19 10:26 AM
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nice comeback
/r/askTRP17/02/19 08:40 AM
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It's just really hard to grasp this concept unless you've seen it happen firsthand with somebody ( best friend e.g. ) or you've had it happen to you yourself. I believe most guys never had a woman chasing them so that's why they keep investing in the options that are availabe to them: chasing women. You gotta raise your SMV first and the first few times woman start chasing you, you can finally start employing this mentality. If you're low SMV, women won't hit you up after a soft next and there s…
/r/askTRP14/02/19 11:55 AM
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You should avoid the cinema all together. On a date you want to exude positive qualities by being fun and enganging or whatever else you bring to the table and then you want to escalate. None of this is possible while you're watching a movie, not talking and not really being able to escalate
/r/askTRP14/02/19 11:46 AM
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She was an alpha widow through and through. How do you know about her feelings for her ex? Did she straight up tell you? Always been very curious to actually meet a true alpha widow, yet I wouldn't know how to recognise one. Also agree on your last point, SMV is everything
/r/askTRP12/02/19 09:03 PM
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I was hoping it was the MS Paint guy again
/r/askTRP05/02/19 07:23 PM
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I agree. If you are high value and bring energy they love having you around, I always meet 2-3 new groups every time I go out. And it’s just way more fun and anonymous with those guys, because you can choose not to see them again
/r/askTRP31/01/19 10:06 AM
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I'd pay money to watch some of your dates on tape.. you exit the bar, see a cop car and just bail to keep up the character
/r/askTRP24/01/19 05:14 PM
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You did the right thing and your analysis is spot on as well. Maybe she'll come around if she sees you with other women, maybe she won't. But chasing would only result in more rejection
/r/askTRP24/01/19 05:13 PM
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2019 girls pairbonding and being loyal choose one
/r/askTRP17/01/19 09:24 PM
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It's a legitimate question, don't mind the trolls. Several things: If you have not had sex, she's not an FWB and you are not that close yet, so I would just go for a sincere hug. Always downplay your level on intimacy in the beginning, it shows higher value than if you just go for a tongue kiss right from the get go. If you had a good first date, she'll want it even more after you've just hugged her and not kissed her outright. If you had a great first date,you made out and you go for the second…
/r/askTRP12/01/19 06:07 PM
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Also, ALWAYS ASSUME THAT SHE'S SEEING OTHER GUYS. I use that same approach and this is why I don't trust her, just like you said. I don't trust any girl I don't know very well You are saying, she's gonna bring up who she's seeing packed up in a shit test? And I'm supposed to wait until she shit tests me like that to find out if / who she's seeing?
/r/askTRP07/01/19 10:19 PM
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on this sub, moderate n-count can mean anything. I've heard people mean 5 and people mean 50 when they mean low n count. Which range are we talking about here? At what age?
/r/askTRP04/01/19 05:17 PM
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I'm not too sure what you mean by attracted mentally. I don't know many girls, if any, that I'd hang out with alone if we didn't have something going on. But they must not be too annoying As long as they're resonably attractive ( = not fat and not hideous ), I definitely think it helps with your abundance mentality to plate these girls After all, I don't know how badly you have to neglect yourself as a girl to look bad naked with makeup on. But it sure is possible
/r/askTRP04/01/19 05:15 PM
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You can get the same kind of HPV from kissing when using your tongue
/r/askTRP03/01/19 12:55 AM
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yeah, if her pussy is radioactive you might get oral cancer
/r/askTRP01/01/19 11:10 PM
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I see your point. But then it isn't too clear who to hang out with, right? E.g. I have a friend who definitely has great looks, is fit and has natural game. It's strange, he does a lot of weird shit in my opinion when it comes to gaming girls, but it works very well for him. But other than that he's a complete loser to be honest. Still living at home and has a shit job, smoking weed all the time etc.. Not sure what to make of that, currently I still hang out with him but only when doing stuff th…
/r/askTRP01/01/19 10:49 PM
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You all are talking like there are all these alphas walking around; I know very few, if any alphas. Somebody who is fit, has game, has his shit together ( good career and finances ), dresses well, is RP etc. is super rare I've been to two different colleges, and even there maybe 5% of guys are fit, and I'm not even talking really fit, like Instagram Model fit, I'm just talking about some definition of a sixpack and looking big in a shirt. Even in a nightclub that number doesn't increase, you mig…
/r/askTRP01/01/19 07:37 PM
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i see, thank you
/r/askTRP30/12/18 04:44 AM
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What does the flair ( the number ) next to a name mean? I've seen 1,2 and 3 so far. Does it tell you at which of the 5 stages of the acceptance process you're currently at?
/r/askTRP28/12/18 07:31 PM
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what happenend? did you just pull out and hit the gas?
/r/askTRP27/12/18 10:52 PM
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I would not be so quick to judge start with 12 Rules for Life, that's his most approachable work
/r/askTRP27/12/18 12:46 PM
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If you're really down and feel like being itself has turned on you, I'd recommend you read Jordan Petersons Stuff. You can not allow yourself to become bitter at your very core, only misery and pain awaits you there and if you really follow down the rabbit hole suicide awaits you Life can be much better and it's your responsibility to make it so. Life isn't easy but it is what you make of it, don't let others define you
/r/askTRP27/12/18 12:29 PM
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Believe me I had no choice but to get with my LTR; under normal circumstancs I would never have done it. Don't leave us hanging, is she holding you at gunpoint or what?
/r/askTRP27/12/18 12:06 PM
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https://whoism3.wordpress.com/2012/11/17/confessions-of-a-reformed-incel/ scroll down a bit for the original post
/r/askTRP27/12/18 12:05 PM
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Which country in Europe are you referring to? In my country residency pays way above average and allows you to live in your own place comfortably, spend money on clothes etc. and still save / invest some money. If you live in a low income country, move to a country like Germany or Switzerland and you'll get much better pay during residency. The educational credentials are mostly transferable across Europe Other than that, not much you can do. You can do some side jobs with your education ( for e…
/r/askTRP26/12/18 07:07 PM
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I'm stealing this line for future use
/r/askTRP25/12/18 09:35 PM
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Marriage is not BP by default, look at Rollo Tomassi, he's definitely red pilled and still married
/r/askTRP25/12/18 09:33 PM
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I didn’t read that, didn’t have to. People write novels about their oneitis and expect strangers to care, which is exactly the point, no one except you gives a fuck. I don’t care if you climbed mount boob and sunk the magic puss, after one night and a fuck session it doesn’t mean a thing and if you’re attached that easily, ding ding ding - it’s you. You should be coming here asking why you’re so needy and what is missing in your life for a simple fuck to throw it off it’s axis. The answer is alw…
/r/askTRP25/12/18 09:29 AM
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What is your / her SMV like?
/r/askTRP23/12/18 07:35 PM
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talk about projection, holy ...
/r/askTRP22/12/18 01:47 PM
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That is the most retarded shit I have ever read Are you also the king in the chair watching peasants entertain you, when you sit there watching your wife getting railed?
/r/askTRP22/12/18 12:30 PM
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2 things: It's impossible to know somebody else completely, even if you are very good friends, even if you think he's 100% beta, he might have something that's actually elevating him to a higher value. It might just not be obvious It's normal to feel that way if you just swallowed TRP. Just know that bitterness gets you nowhere. Focus on yourself only. Are you seeing the results you want to see? If not, why not? What can you do to improve your own life? You should start to see some results prett…
/r/askTRP21/12/18 09:37 PM
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tell me your dl 1rm and I'll tell you your destiny
/r/askTRP21/12/18 06:31 PM
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probable like "will the world still spin tomorrow" probable
/r/askTRP20/12/18 04:14 PM
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It's very hard to have a wingman who's actually helpful to your game and who also spends his valuable time being your wingman Unless you're lucky, you're better off solo
/r/askTRP20/12/18 03:46 PM
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Typical lying women - they never smile at ugly dudes unless they themselves are super ugly or are forced to ( waitress or something like it ) if she gives you a real smile while maintaining eye contact, it's an IOI
/r/askTRP20/12/18 03:44 PM
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Why would you not recommend MM for somebody who has to put serious time into raising his SMV first? Consider the guy who is obese ( Bodyfat > 25 % and not going to the gym ), even if he's got money and style, it will still be hell on earth trying to game. It's like playing on super hard mode. In that case, would it not be better to spend some months doing barely any gaming and focussing on getting your nutrition / gym etc. straight?
/r/askTRP19/12/18 09:43 PM
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If for 100 true cold approaches, you get 5 lays, that's already a really good ratio. Think about it, you could probably do 15 a day, that would be 100 in a week, 5 lays per week. In reality, it's much lower than that unless your SMV is on an apex level
/r/askTRP19/12/18 11:17 AM
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good stuff, this is really all you need to get started again
/r/askTRP18/12/18 06:12 PM
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Would you kindly read the side bar? DREAD GAME
/r/askTRP16/12/18 02:15 PM
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If he's really your friend, tell him not to AMOG you and instead to be more of a wingman I also got a friend who's quite high in SMV and back in the day, even when I was way down there in SMV, he helped me out before I even knew what the hell I was doing. Would open a two set alone, basically pick up one girl and then proceed to tell her friend:" see that guy over there, he does xyz " and those to this day were the easiest lays of my life. Or just in general introduce me to a lot of people So be…
/r/askTRP16/12/18 02:11 PM
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It really is a biological thing: Validation is for Women, what Sex is for men. What Porn is for Men, Social Media is for Women. It's the default thing that women base their self worth on. Men can change their default, women can not. That's why there are all these acceptance campaigns for women, because they want all their bad decisions validated by society, even by force. They can't fathom the idea, that maybe they should adapt, but rather the whole society must change their view to accomodate t…
/r/askTRP15/12/18 11:00 AM
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The true Red Pill is seeing your chad friend do the dumbest shit, shit you'd never get away with and still proceed to score time and time again. I don't believe your game matters much unless you hit a certain threshold in looks, you should just go MM and improve it until then. Otherwise you're always gonna wonder where you fucked up, but it was your looks that brought about your ruin
/r/askTRP15/12/18 10:56 AM
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nothing red pills you faster than getting fucked over hard by some woman
/r/askTRP14/12/18 11:58 AM
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I also don't know what this guy is talking about... Raw Sex feels a hundred times better
/r/askTRP14/12/18 11:54 AM
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Depends on you: Are you fit / good looking / well groomed / nice outfit etc.? Do you have good game? Do you have a decent amount of money? 1 and 2 are essential, 3 will help. If you have 1 and 2, then being over 25 will be an advantage over the guys that are <25.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 02:24 AM
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I agree, Revenge and Hatred are a sign of investment and attachment I really like this quote: "The opposite of love is not hate, but indifference" And that means, as you said, ghosting
/r/askTRP13/12/18 10:13 AM
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You’re on the wrong sub
/r/askTRP12/12/18 09:15 AM
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like 80% of marriages
/r/askTRP11/12/18 11:58 AM
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only solution to this: game more girls
/r/askTRP11/12/18 11:57 AM
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You can't even get mad at these autistic posts, because these kinds of quality comments arise from them
/r/askTRP09/12/18 12:06 AM
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Watch this video, it's from a billionaire's point of view on career vs relationship: https://youtu.be/0yw7HSPsXWE?t=128
/r/askTRP07/12/18 01:41 PM
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Okay, I read up on it and it seems unless there is Common Law Marriage in that state, you don't owe them shit UNLESS you've made an explicit agreement to take care of them after the relationship is over. If you did this, you deserve everything you get Also, with kids it's different again
/r/askTRP07/12/18 01:33 PM
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Is this true for the US? Can a LTR whom you have no legal obligation to ( e.g. marriage ) claim things that you bought with your own money?
/r/askTRP07/12/18 10:12 AM
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Yeah, you're right. I need to fix my outcome independence
/r/askTRP05/12/18 04:55 PM
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Let me be clear: Anything other than "Yes, sounds great, let's do that, I'd love that" is a no and you simply ghost if it's a no?
/r/askTRP05/12/18 04:31 PM
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Iron Rule of Tomassi #3 Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait. If you haven't fucked her after the third date, move on. The sex is NEVER worth the wait. Consider this, you even LTR this girl before you've fucked ( complete shit idea, now you're living in her frame ) and then in some months you have sex. Shortly after all that waiting bullshit is out the window , she meets Chad on the next party and is pulli…
/r/askTRP02/12/18 09:45 AM
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You're right. Is it pointless to wonder what could have been the reason for the sudden change in attitude?
/r/askTRP01/12/18 03:20 PM
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Read Rollo Tomassis Books, especially the Rational Male. Side note: Be very wary of girls telling you what they want. They say they want thing A, but really they want something completely different. They do this subconsciously, they are not aware of it. It's your job not to fall for this shit
/r/askTRP24/11/18 03:44 PM
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lmao come on man, she's dancing on top of a bar and is pouring water on herself to do what exactly? It doesn't matter though if she's just a plate to you
/r/askTRP19/11/18 04:47 PM
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She said she's not stripping... She said she's not stripping and she said if she doesn't like it after the first night she's not going to take it and she doesn't want to make me upsets She isn't stripping but still...it's close to it. Spin, hamster, spin!
/r/askTRP19/11/18 04:42 PM
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Well said, the female imperative and the fact that most men are not able to spin plates furthers this, too. The average young woman is still sought after unless she's hideous or fat ( even then lol ), not the same for guys
/r/askTRP18/11/18 04:08 PM
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Never take back your ex. This is all rookie stuff, read the sidebar
/r/askTRP13/11/18 08:41 AM
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The holy trinity
/r/askTRP08/11/18 04:15 PM
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People on here will tell you no, never have female contacts unless they are plates. But I found personally, that if you have a lot of female contacts, where you get more or equal to what you put in, it is worth it. Make sure you're not doing beta shit like listening to her problems or do anything for her you wouldn't do for some random friend and enjoy the perks of being invited to parties and other social events
/r/askTRP08/11/18 04:14 PM
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this is the only truth. if your SMV is high enough you can get away with anything
/r/askTRP08/11/18 08:20 AM
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I'm gonna provide you with the medical knowledge only: You can have the HPV virus for a long time ( yes, more than 2 years ) and not develop symptoms That means either you or your partner ( or both ) could have had the virus sleeping in your body before you even were together The virus can spread even without sexual contact through varius other ways, e.g. many children have it, too Washing your genitals in between sex sessions has little to nothing to do with it. If either of you have the virus …
/r/askTRP02/11/18 01:41 PM
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In my country white girls are either really into other races or don't want them at all. Pretty easy to tell which women belong to which group, too
/r/askTRP01/11/18 09:19 PM
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harsh but true
/r/askTRP28/10/18 04:46 PM
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What about burnt social bridges after rejection or after you break a plate? I found, that when you do advance you either get rejected, which might very well exclude you from the invitation for the next party or you have something. Should that break off in the future you're also less likely to be invited. I think you have to be careful to have a solid group ( a big group ) of people, where you DON'T game at all so that it's only social relations that are not easily burnt
/r/askTRP26/10/18 06:19 AM
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your ex is on suicide watch after reading this comment
/r/askTRP25/10/18 03:46 PM
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I assume you read 48 laws of power. There's a whole subject dedicated to this. You want to instill the idea ( YOUR IDEA ) into him, you want him to to think that it's his own idea. So if you want him to pick somebody else, you might drop subliminal hints that another person is highly qualified, or you maybe casually suggest teaching something else such that you can't teach another class on top of it. You'll have to analyse the situation and figure out how to make your boss think there's better u…
/r/askTRP22/10/18 04:42 PM
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This is especially important for LTRs since your frame game needs to be much better than with plates since you can't just next ( or at least not that easily )
/r/askTRP17/10/18 03:14 PM
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You need to read some books, they cover exactly all the topics you talk about and give examples. Mostly read Book of Pook
/r/askTRP16/10/18 08:08 PM
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No, it's not. I don't know what you did, but if it's completely over the top, just remember it for next time and keep it a little lighter. Use it to improve your game In general, just play it off with humor, keep humorising the situation or just change topics. Even make jokes about her taking it way too seriously, if she really keeps pushing. But you don't apologise, just act like it never happened There are VERY few situations, where an apology is a good idea -> Read 48 Laws of Power
/r/askTRP16/10/18 08:07 PM
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First off, why date people you're working with extensively, stop doing that Second off, no need to ignore them, just acknowledge them, smile, don't try to reengage or anything like that, just pretend you're friendly and there was never anything sexual Third off, I don't see how this affects your career. They should have no influence on your career whatsoever. You still have plenty of people you can network with and they most likely will work somewhere completely different than you later on
/r/askTRP13/10/18 08:02 AM
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Most girls out of High School have more than 10, what are you on about If those statics rely on women “revealing” their number of sexual partners, you already know the answer to your confusion
/r/askTRP12/10/18 01:39 PM
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Under no circumstances you admit you are letting her go. Do what girls do. Always be “busy”, cancel things because of family business etc.. do this a few times and she’ll get the message
/r/askTRP12/10/18 10:33 AM
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Do it, don't forget to film it, then post it here
/r/askTRP09/10/18 02:46 PM
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It's actually insane how many problems lifting alone solves. Add proper sleep and nutrition and that's AT LEAST half the battle
/r/askTRP08/10/18 06:24 PM
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Can you give some examples of escalation? Kino? How "far" do you escalate
/r/askTRP07/10/18 09:34 PM
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Sounds good. Can you give some examples of showing intent? Flirting, teasing , light kino? How do you ensure you don't get put into the platonic category?
/r/askTRP07/10/18 09:33 PM
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Pills have a near 100% success rate. The offical number is only so low, because women are too stupid to read the god damn instructions on how to use them properly
/r/askTRP06/10/18 11:07 AM
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50s at age 24? What was/ is your SMV like from age 18-24?
/r/askTRP04/10/18 05:42 PM
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Pussy in the hand is worth two in the wild Shakespeare would be proud
/r/askTRP26/09/18 09:37 PM
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Read it again It's not about her or him. It's about them taking the child, literally stealing it from the father, and the state who has laws that favor women and their bad decisions. Why is he not allowed to see his son whenever he wants to? Why should she be able to decide? That's what the justified anger is about
/r/askTRP26/09/18 05:37 PM
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You need to stop focussing on women at all. Contrary to popular belief, TRP does not advocate improving yourself so you can get more women. That is a byproduct. You improve yourself because you love yourself and you are a man. That's what real men do. They don't do anything for women. Women are lucky to join you. You need to read proper TRP literature ( Book of Pook, Rollo Tomassi ) and you'll know what I'm talking about. It will change your mindset. You won't focus on girls, you'll focus on you…
/r/askTRP26/09/18 01:22 PM
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It seems like you're already doing good ( lifting etc. ) and the remaining rage is actually justified: You should have equal "access" to your kid, that guy and her should get their skulls bashed in. Working on this ( not literally obviously ) would be the best thing to alleviate your rage. More practically though: Is there anything practical you can do to ensure you see your kid more often? As you didn't state where you live ( USA e.g. ) or anything like that, I can't give specific advice on it.…
/r/askTRP26/09/18 01:17 PM
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183 pounds doesn't seem too much for your size. You want to increase muscle mass but you dont want to bulk dirty, where you don't look good for large periods of time. Cut til you have some ab definition and then bulk cleanly, you'll gain mass slowly and look good all the time while still gaining muscle mass
/r/askTRP25/09/18 09:10 PM
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Thank you for the thorough response, it really helped.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 07:57 PM
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Thank you, that answered both of my questions. What do you suggest then in terms of social circle game? Do you completely avoid it or do you have a certain cut off distance ( like friend of friend of friend ) that you would still go for? I feel like I'm hugely limiting myself by not going for anybody in my social circle. Right now, I'm only gaming strangers ( day & nightgame ), but tbh I feel like this is 10 times harder than all the girls I could easily game in my social circle
/r/askTRP25/09/18 12:17 PM
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Take away work then. What about social circle game? Are you gonna ignore every girl that is remotely connected to any social circle you're involved in because it might damage your reputation hitting on her? Are you only gonna game girls that are complete strangers doing day and nightgame? That is the question. I don't give a shit about sexual harassement lawsuits
/r/askTRP25/09/18 09:12 AM
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You're definitely on a good path doing all those things, but where are you at right now, that you need 3-4 years to correct it to a point, where you can approach women in general? 3-4 years seems way too long. You don't need to be Hugh Jackman to talk to women
/r/askTRP21/09/18 08:28 PM
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quick update: sent that message, bantered around a little bit over text and we're gonna get some drinks next week
/r/askTRP21/09/18 04:04 PM
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Jeb Bush
/r/askTRP20/09/18 03:51 PM
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Be honest: Did you read any of the sidebar material? Any of it? Have you ever heard of the word " oneitis " ?
/r/askTRP18/09/18 09:28 PM
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It's the beta's way
/r/askTRP18/09/18 11:08 AM
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You really should be protecting your anonymity here. Never disclose such information and I won't do it either. Never narrow it down more than a country on this account and always falsify details
/r/askTRP16/09/18 05:54 PM
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I'm from Germany as well. "Creepy" is a word reserved for low confidence, low SMV beta males. Imagine David Beckham walking through Germany chatting up girls. Imagine how hard he'd have to try to come off as creepy. You need to stop overthinking this and start reading up on basic Daygame / Approaching theory. You're not going up to girls asking them for sex, but casually initiating conversation in a public place. This is extremely easy in University, too, as I am studying here,too. Speaking from…
/r/askTRP16/09/18 10:22 AM
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Drinking in moderation ( clean, high proof alcohol ) isn't too bad as long as you keep up the protein intake high / carbs low and only do it once, or max twice a week. That being said, I think your game improves if you are sober. Most guys are immediately disqualified, cause they're stupid drunk. Don't be that idiot. Maybe you need to go to a better club / location / festival that you might enjoy sober, e.g. with better music that you like. If you're trying to pick up girls that are dtf it's und…
/r/askTRP16/09/18 09:51 AM
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Thanks for the advice
/r/askTRP14/09/18 05:14 PM
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Sounds good. Do you respond in any way to her declining the invitation? Something like " alright "? One obviously wants to convey indifference, I'm just not sure if not responding is the best way to do that
/r/askTRP14/09/18 04:45 PM
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Thanks. Next time/girl I'll do that
/r/askTRP11/09/18 08:58 PM
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I see how that mindset is different from my initial one. I'll go with the new one and post an update. Thanks for the advice
/r/askTRP11/09/18 04:04 PM
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Ok, let me get this straight. I hit her up, we chat a little bit, maybe about how her evening went? shortly after that I say something like:"let's grab a coffee tomorrow, let's see if i like you for more than ten minutes" and then go for coffee+park and try to escalate there or should I go straight for something like:" let's meet for drinks friday evening, I know a nice place around here " and escalate there I'm pushing on escalation ( or trying to ), because I really don't want to move too slow…
/r/askTRP11/09/18 01:13 PM
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What are the main differences in escalating at day vs in a night club / bar? Do the same principles apply?
/r/askTRP11/09/18 09:41 AM
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Honest question: Do you still live with your wife? Or are you just married on paper
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 08:24 AM
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Been friends with her for 4 years, and have been treating her as the girl I take on dates but don't fuck with. ??? Does it get more beta
/r/askTRP11/09/18 08:03 AM
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A few months ago I was at a festival and there was a group of girls ( not that hot, so no intentions there ). Most of them were gonna get married soon. When I asked each of them to describe their husbands they all used words like: Caring, supportive, nice etc. All of you can guess what happened at that festival. Stuff like that is proof for the old adage: AWALT. AF / BB.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 11:34 AM
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After 3 of my homies smashed this girl How is she LTR Material
/r/askTRP05/09/18 06:58 AM
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There should be a small post on the sidebar about porn. Everyday there are several posts asking if porn is okay. Your answer is the only answer to it
/r/askTRP04/09/18 08:49 AM
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There is no healthy amount of porn. The symptoms you describe are well documented with people watching porn. If you made it a habit you're just not aware of it but they are there and are actually getting much worse with continued use. So just refrain from porn and preferably masturbation as well. It is much better for you. Another user here summed it up quite nicely: "By watching porn you're literally cucking yourself"
/r/askTRP03/09/18 07:54 PM
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Thank you
/r/askTRP03/09/18 07:43 AM
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What does it mean to hide your RP power level? I already never talk about TRP in real life
/r/askTRP31/08/18 05:58 PM
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How long did that take you?
/r/TheRedPill28/08/18 05:31 AM
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