My LTR has been involved with a co ed social club the last few years. We entered our relationship earlier this year and recently she has been supervising this club's activities for extra cash.

With that being said, apparently, at the end of every year this club has a retreat at a huge house in the woods to celebrate the season. Of course I wouldn't be okay with a co-ed slumber party filled with drugs and alcohol.

Don't get me wrong I am more than willing/prepared to walk away should she decide to go but i have been playing out scenarios in my head and wonder if she brings up going in December what my response should be.

Personally, if she brought it up/suggested going and didint invite me that's a red flag within itself but I guess my question is how do you approach these types of things? Is it as simple as saying I am not comfortable with this but if you want to go, do what makes you happy? And walk away?

I always hope for the best and expect the worst. I know it's a ways off and things change but how would you handle something like this?