Third lay (can't get it up)

rotfrukt95 · 2018-03-15T23:41:01+00:00

Anxiety/nervousness is the number one cause of this in young people by far. It's extremely common, so don't worry too much about it. Until I was in my mid-20s, I pretty much had a hard time keeping my dick hard the first one or two times I fucked any girl. Only one in eight or nine on average had any problem with it.

JerryLawlerPigFace · 2018-03-16T00:56:24+00:00

Honestly man girls end up thinking it’s because of them anyways so don’t sweat it. Play it off like, eh, not happening today, let’s watch tv. If she ever said anything like “oh well you can’t even keep your dick hard”, so what, she sounds shitty and deep down, she probably still thinks it’s because of her lol

It’s unfortunate but not as big of a deal as society would have you believe

IncognitoMaster91 · 2018-03-16T01:38:40+00:00

Spend a lot of time eating her out and pleasuring her. While you do that turn yourself on if it's soft. Normally works for me. Well when I had issues with that.

And she won't mind.

V0797 · 2018-03-15T22:47:43+00:00

Breath and meditate for as long as possible before. Breath and make sure none of your leg muscles are tensed when fucking her

abdada · 2018-03-15T22:46:51+00:00

Have you taken any medication for ADHD lately? If so, when and for how long and was it prescribed or did you take it for fun?

Rollo_Mayhem3 · 2018-03-15T23:10:51+00:00

In now particular order:

Get a really good night sleep.
Minimize stress going into the date.
Work out your legs at least 36 hrs before.
Stay hydrated.
Visually imagine fucking her, your dick getting hard, and her screaming...
Don't force the sex encounter.
Definately guide her to your dick, gentle caress is what you want her to do.
***what I do..in the shower before the date..I'll jerk a little to see how responsive it is. If u can get a hard on then, then it likely be all nerves unless your subconsciously not attracted or turned on...
Try taking pills..
Lastly have fun with it..youre 19...you'll get through this.. it happens. Mood, stress, chemistry all factor into this.
I would have a single glass of wine and play some music to relax.. the more in your head u get, the tougher it would be...

GL. And report back

Edit: just as an aside my dick gets a really hard the longer I have stayed off any substances like alcohol, weed, or cigs..caffeine. so don't touch any in the days leading up...

addwater · 2018-03-17T21:10:20+00:00

Pop a Viagra.

Title	Third lay (can't get it up)
Author	rotfrukt95
Upvotes	2
Comments	9
Date	March 15, 2018 10:39 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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